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How much is too much? - Trinity-Belle - 17-07-2012
Feedback wise, that is....
I've heard a number of guys say that if a girl has too much feedback it kind of puts them off... something about seeing all those comments brining it home just how many guys have been there before you.
I kind of have some sympathy with that... although it is difficult to get my head around to be honest.
Other guys, on the other hand, seem to take the opposite view, and seek out a girl who has lots of feedback and seems to be "busy" believing that busy equates to popular, which must mean she is good, right?
So... how do you feel about it? How much is too much?
RE: How much is too much? - iluvjem - 17-07-2012
In my experience guys dont really look at feedback in the same way the dont look at profiles.
I've had guys say to me "wow you have so many feedbacks" in regards to escorting but they haven't really looked at it they've just seen the number on my profile. If they did they would see I have feedback from 4 different services...
I remember my first negative feedback, it, as these things do, couldn't have come on a worse day. I wasn't surprised to get it, I had given him negative feedback. I know I was justified but I worried about the effect it would have. In truth it had none and no one has ever brought up or questioned my Neg feedbacks so perhaps it shows how little effect the feedback system has?
RE: How much is too much? - gaz255 - 17-07-2012
To me doesnt matter as long as there are some positive for safety reasons etc.What would put me off is lots of feedback only, negative ones ,disputed ones that dont ring true or field reports not linked to profiles but they still ,thank goodness, come up on searches.As long there is enough to check value and that you will have a good time.Got caught out once -not a good experience and she had about 15 postive-maybe was unlucky as think she may have had one too many.Also took a chance on girl with zilch and she was great.Its what happens when you ring to talk to the girl that counts.
RE: How much is too much? - iluvjem - 17-07-2012
(17-07-2012, 21:38)gaz255 Wrote: .Also took a chance on girl with zilch and she was great.Its what happens when you ring to talk to the girl that counts.
I agree. I hear of girls that wont offer services to any guy without feedback but when it comes to escorting most bookings are done by phone when you have nothing to go on but your instinct. That's what counts. I wont see a guy with lots of positive feedback if I feel there is something wrong.
RE: How much is too much? - kinkydirtybitch - 17-07-2012
(17-07-2012, 19:18)Trinity-Belle Wrote: I've heard a number of guys say that if a girl has too much feedback it kind of puts them off
If I were not getting busier the more feedback I got I would probably be able to understand this
Just as there are guys who want to enjoy their self delusion that their lady is as relatively pure as the driven snow, there are guys who prefer a more established track record
RE: How much is too much? - Trinity-Belle - 17-07-2012
Oh, I dunno... a lot of the guys who I see have read ALL of my field reports! (and there are 19 of them now! lol)
It's quite bemusing sometimes... people I've never met before sometimes more about me and what I do than I do!
Haha!
But I do know what you mean.
And negative feedback I don't think matters much if you get the odd one... guys are clever enough to understand that some blokes are just knob heads. 100 positive, 1 negative... it's not hard to work out who it was that didnlt come up to scratch! lol.
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RE: How much is too much? - Trinity-Belle - 17-07-2012
(17-07-2012, 21:43)kinkydirtybitch Wrote:(17-07-2012, 19:18)Trinity-Belle Wrote: I've heard a number of guys say that if a girl has too much feedback it kind of puts them off
If I were not getting busier the more feedback I got I would probably be able to understand this
Just as there are guys who want to enjoy their self delusion that their lady is as relatively pure as the driven snow, there are guys who prefer a more established track record
Yea, that's kind of how I feel about it.
And for sure the more feedback I have received (and particularly the more field reports) the busier I have become.
RE: How much is too much? - Trinity-Belle - 17-07-2012
(17-07-2012, 21:40)iluvjem Wrote: when it comes to escorting most bookings are done by phone when you have nothing to go on but your instinct. That's what counts. I wont see a guy with lots of positive feedback if I feel there is something wrong.
Totally - it's nice to see a profile and a bit of feedback, but at the end of the day it is the voice on the end of the phone which makes the decision... doesn't matter whether you've exchanged a dozen emails and he has perfect feedback or it is just someone you've never heard of before phoning up out of the blue.
Gut instinct.
RE: How much is too much? - gaz255 - 17-07-2012
(17-07-2012, 22:00)Trinity-Belle Wrote:(17-07-2012, 21:40)iluvjem Wrote: when it comes to escorting most bookings are done by phone when you have nothing to go on but your instinct. That's what counts. I wont see a guy with lots of positive feedback if I feel there is something wrong.
Totally - it's nice to see a profile and a bit of feedback, but at the end of the day it is the voice on the end of the phone which makes the decision... doesn't matter whether you've exchanged a dozen emails and he has perfect feedback or it is just someone you've never heard of before phoning up out of the blue.
Gut instinct.
Dont they say job interviews are decided in the first 20 secs.Same with booking escorts, you can tell in the first few words on the phone if its going to be a success -if gut instinct says no then back out -its not as if its a few pence at risk.
RE: How much is too much? - Freddo - 18-07-2012
I have seen ladies with loads of posative feedback who are not really that good I think a lot of people just use it as a exchange they give a posative and get one back.
I have seen ladies with no feedback that have been really good as well.
I do agree with FBS that some guys like to think they are the first or there escort does not see many punters of course I would suggest that these blokes dream on.