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Why do some escorts act like this? - simo22 - 12-12-2011
Hi all, Last Week, I contacted & then emailed and discussed a proposed session with likes dislikes etc and then on thursday booked a meeting for today. What could possibly go wrong???????????? I texted at 9.30am to confirm our 12.30 appointment. (she had asked me to confirm between 9 and 10) I had got a long dinner off work, sneaked past the mrs, got the cash sorted out, dressed nicely but not so mrs would tumble me, drove to venue.
12.05 get a text 'are u my 12.30?'
replied; yeah sure am, simon. remember? black tights, script etc me bringing toys? 12.13 ' right gonna be late. wait a few minutes then txt me'
replied; are you ok?
12.21 'stuck in traffic back by 12.40 babes'
replied; dont rush and crash or get a speedo tkt can book later in week?
12.31 'there in 15 mins now. see you 4 sexiest times mwah mwah'
replied not able meet as not enuff time. need to be @ work 4 2pm will msg u 2 book again
12.47 'home now where are u? still wanna meet?'
replied on way 2 work ta, will msg u later on aw 4 rebook.
12.56 'got stockings nix on hun and pussy wet 4 u, just knock n cum in'
replied am nearly back @ work so cant play now. but will try 2 rebook later this week.
1.03 'what do you expect me to do now, we had a booking,have turned work away for you. waster. ur blocked.
I am truely cursed arent i
RE: Why do some escorts act like this? - English Kate - 12-12-2011
She ignored the fact that you were going to work and never once responded to what you were saying. Did this not give you an indication that she was going to be unreasonable?
She let you down and should have apologised and given you the opportunity to re-book.
Why do you still want to see her?
RE: Why do some escorts act like this? - simo22 - 12-12-2011
Why do you still want to see her?
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Hi Kate, love bagpuss by the way.
Think my rant got twisted somewhat.
I dont want to see her and cant anyway as i am blocked.
I realised things werent good when she wasnt certain when i was coming, for what service, and struggled to tell the time.
I simply have relaid the gist of the txt/saga because it gets it off my cheast (can hardly say to wifey, a funny thing happened to me on the way to seeing an escort today), it shows that sometimes us 'hunters' get the runnaround from the wgs and mainly.... looking back its kinda funny. its like she isnt even reading my txts or is txting her 1.30 thinking its me???? Well i have to laugh else i would cry
RE: Why do some escorts act like this? - EdenEscorts - 12-12-2011
(12-12-2011, 21:47)simo22 Wrote: Why do you still want to see her?Hi Kate, love bagpuss by the way.
Think my rant got twisted somewhat.
I dont want to see her and cant anyway as i am blocked.
I realised things werent good when she wasnt certain when i was coming, for what service, and struggled to tell the time.
I simply have relaid the gist of the txt/saga because it gets it off my cheast (can hardly say to wifey, a funny thing happened to me on the way to seeing an escort today), it shows that sometimes us 'hunters' get the runnaround from the wgs and mainly.... looking back its kinda funny. its like she isnt even reading my txts or is txting her 1.30 thinking its me???? Well i have to laugh else i would cry
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Nightmare! You are quite right to say that if you didn't laugh... I don't think she did even read your texts! Unfortunately it doesn't help you but its not uncommon and thats the shame of the matter, totally unprofessional. Thanks for sharing, its not your loss, it's hers. Hope it goes better for you next time!
RE: Why do some escorts act like this? - Freddo - 12-12-2011
It happens to me quite a bit especially escorts that are really late and expect you to sit around and wait for them. i have waited for some but others I have told that I have other things planned and I will try to rebook them for a time they might be available.
I waited outside a hotel for nearly 90mins once as a escort had a punter with her who would not leave and kept texting me and asking me to wait, in the end I offered to go up and tell the other bloke to sling his hook. He really should have known better and not pay for a hour and then stay for nearly 4 hours. as he was a mod on a forum I used to use, how did I know him you would be surprised
RE: Why do some escorts act like this? - curvy crumpet - 13-12-2011
(12-12-2011, 23:45)Freddo Wrote: It happens to me quite a bit especially escorts that are really late and expect you to sit around and wait for them. i have waited for some but others I have told that I have other things planned and I will try to rebook them for a time they might be available.
I waited outside a hotel for nearly 90mins once as a escort had a punter with her who would not leave and kept texting me and asking me to wait, in the end I offered to go up and tell the other bloke to sling his hook. He really should have known better and not pay for a hour and then stay for nearly 4 hours. as he was a mod on a forum I used to use, how did I know him you would be surprised
The escort should still have asked the client to leave as she had bookings and not left you waiting for 90 minutes no matter who he was. It was bad manners on her part and the mod was just taking the proverbial piss, that is why I will not see gentlemen who post forums as some girls feel that they might give you negative feedback if you do not dance to their tune.
RE: Why do some escorts act like this? - English Kate - 13-12-2011
Personally I don't make public who I am seeing, as I prefer to keep my work between myself and the client. If the client wants to make it known, that is up to them and I always ask for honest feedback, as I would hate for someone to come to me and feel that I did not live up to expectation based on what they had read from others.
Freddo, let alone bad time keeping. What the hell was the lady texting you for if she was in a booking? I do not answer my phone when I am in a booking and in most cases it is not even in the same room as where the booking is taking place. If they are geniunely running a few moments late (say the last client is taking a quick shower before leaving) then I may text while they are in the shower, but as I leave a minimum of half an hour between bookings I'm happy to say it has never actually happened.
Perhaps this is where using the AW system does work, as a booking that has been confirmed by the Escort and then not followed through, can still have feedback written about them, so you can let others know.
By the way, may I ask Simon. Did she have good feedback?
RE: Why do some escorts act like this? - Freddo - 13-12-2011
He was only talking to her apparently and showing her how to get the best from her PC. The only reason that I recognised him was because she told me who it was and that he posted on the same forum as me.
At first i thought it was great her telling me all about him until I thought about it properly if she is sharing his information with me the chances are she is telling all her punters about each other, needless to say I only visited her a couple of times.
RE: Why do some escorts act like this? - curvy crumpet - 13-12-2011
(13-12-2011, 08:00)Freddo Wrote: He was only talking to her apparently and showing her how to get the best from her PC. The only reason that I recognised him was because she told me who it was and that he posted on the same forum as me.
At first i thought it was great her telling me all about him until I thought about it properly if she is sharing his information with me the chances are she is telling all her punters about each other, needless to say I only visited her a couple of times.
Exactly, very indiscreet. But still she should have accepted his pc tutorial when she did not have other bookings but you waited 90 minutes so unfortunately more the fool you.
RE: Why do some escorts act like this? - English Kate - 13-12-2011
(13-12-2011, 08:00)Freddo Wrote: He was only talking to her apparently and showing her how to get the best from her PC. The only reason that I recognised him was because she told me who it was and that he posted on the same forum as me.
At first i thought it was great her telling me all about him until I thought about it properly if she is sharing his information with me the chances are she is telling all her punters about each other, needless to say I only visited her a couple of times.
I don't blame you for not going back to her. She should have been in control of the situation and it does sound like either she didn't want to upset him because he was a mod, or he was taking advantage of the fact he was a mod to gain extra time. Either way totally uncalled for. As CC says, she should have taken him up on the offer of a pc tutorial in her own time and not yours!