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RE: No Reply. - Sexxy-Claudia - 06-09-2012
I don't understand. You haven't booked, you haven't paid and she does'nt want to take your booking or is not interested and you give a bad feedback. I don't think its right giving a bad feedback.
RE: No Reply. - spklors - 06-09-2012
Its simple really, the escort has the right to either accept or reject the booking.
I asked for to be informed if she was intrested in seeing me, and after 6 days she did not reply.
I also have a right of expression, and left feedback saying that she had not returned any e-mails sent, despite her asking for bookings this way.
RE: No Reply. - gaz255 - 06-09-2012
(06-09-2012, 16:01)spklors Wrote: Its simple really, the escort has the right to either accept or reject the booking.
I asked for to be informed if she was intrested in seeing me, and after 6 days she did not reply.
I also have a right of expression, and left feedback saying that she had not returned any e-mails sent, despite her asking for bookings this way.
I still dont get why if there was no reply anyone would bother again?This girl have something inparticular?-why not try another escort who does respond?The issue of feedback-would never whave occured!
Now its totally different if bookings are made and is cancelled without notice etc etc
RE: No Reply. - spklors - 06-09-2012
The escort had good feedback, and gave what was called a good tantric and massage service.
I was in the area and had hoped that 48 hours would be enough time to sort something out.
I have good manners and would never try to book someone for a date, and try to book someone else for the same time, in case the first lady could agree.
The fact she had logged in to collect her pms and e-mails tells me she was aware of me trying to get a booking with her, and tried her way and in the end used a booking form to try to get to see her.
To totally ignore me is not nice, so I used the feedback system to say so.
RE: No Reply. - Trinity-Belle - 06-09-2012
Okay... I'm going to stick my neck out here and say that it is within the guys scope to leave feedback, and he did so.
His comment is a "feedback only" comment, so it doesn't impact on the girl's overall rating.
People will read it and will also read comments left by other people, which spklors says are all good.
They will also be able to link through to HIS feedback and see what girls have said about him to get a view of whether or not he is a decent and reliable guy and whether they think his comment is worth considering.
The information is there for people to read and do with as they will.
Whether or not he should have done it is subjective. The fact is that he has and people can take it under advisement when considering whether or not to see this lady.
There is a guy on AW called nineinchmale (or something similar) who books girls on the AW booking system with, like, ten minutes notice, then leaves a feedback only comment saying "No response to booking". He's done it to loads of girls. The guy is clearly a total prick and hasn't made any effort to contact the girl at all and anyone seeing his comments could easily link back to his feedback profile and see all the negative comments left for him by girls he has done this to and realise that his comment isn't worth shit.
This is completely different... If it all went down the way he said it did, then I don't see a problem with leaving a comment. Negative feedback would be different, but a "feedback only" comment saying what his experience of trying to book her had been... I don't see it as a big deal.
RE: No Reply. - gaz255 - 06-09-2012
E mail I think is not the best way to contact-the easiest is phone.Quick easy gets to the point .E mail too slow and escorts get so much they may log on and only have time to deal with regulars etc or just to update profile data or availability etc.
Also you can tell if the lady is for you and visa versa with a quick chat-so much better communication occurs and few misunderstandings occur.
RE: No Reply. - sarahxxx - 07-09-2012
(06-09-2012, 19:24)Trinity-Belle Wrote: There is a guy on AW called nineinchmale (or something similar) who books girls on the AW booking system with, like, ten minutes notice, then leaves a feedback only comment saying "No response to booking". He's done it to loads of girls. The guy is clearly a total prick and hasn't made any effort to contact the girl at all and anyone seeing his comments could easily link back to his feedback profile and see all the negative comments left for him by girls he has done this to and realise that his comment isn't worth shit.
I think that is something that guys should take on board, there are some girls that are selective and may not see you if you have left to many neg or bad feedbacks, especially if it is seen to be such a trivial matter.
Sarah x x x
RE: No Reply. - spklors - 07-09-2012
I dont see it as an issue, if someone deserves bad/negative feedback then they deserve it, I find that those who speak out about the good and the bad are the honest ones, and deserve the credit for taking the time to say what they think.
if someone see's my feedback and thinks that they dont want to see me then so be it, I have not shirked away from saying what I think and as a result agree that the escorts have a right to see whom they wish.
There is too much of escort supporting only escorts, and punters supporting only punters, we are all in this together, and should support anyone who we think is right irrespective of if provide or use services.
RE: No Reply. - spklors - 07-09-2012
(07-09-2012, 13:38)spklors Wrote: I dont see it as an issue, if someone deserves bad/negative feedback then they deserve it, I find that those who speak out about the good and the bad are the honest ones, and deserve the credit for taking the time to say what they think.
if someone see's my feedback and thinks that they dont want to see me then so be it, I have not shirked away from saying what I think and as a result agree that the escorts have a right to see whom they wish.
There is too much of escort supporting only escorts, and punters supporting only punters, we are all in this together, and should support anyone who we think is right irrespective of if provide or use services.
I received a few pms from escorts and punters supporting what I had said, but were not so sure about saying it on the forum for fear of upsetting some others, so to those who did agree with what I said on the forum and put their name against it, I really do thank you.
RE: No Reply. - serendipity - 07-09-2012
Well I would have blocked you and told every other girl/guy I know who works to block you.. Feedback is important to a lot of us and an undeserved neg is shocking..
I get lots of e-mails some I reply to some I don't its my business and I run it how I want to. I get mail off other girls saying ignore so and so hes a timewaster/scammer/dodgy or I get bad vibes from a mail I ignore block and move on, last thing I would expect is a neg, but then most guys can take the hint you always get the odd one that doesn't..
Glad the lady in question has good feedback most guys can tell if a neg feedback has been left for sour grapes or scamming and not the fact they was ignored..