i find it quite funny the way some portray the boundaries of cheating an example of a meeting i just had through the night
kissing - mutual pleasure = not cheating (cheating)
reverse oral - mutual pleasure = not cheating (cheating)
oral on him - him having pleasure = cheating (cheating) got this one right
penetrative sex - mutual pleasure = not cheating (cheating)
hand relief - him having pleasure = cheating (cheating) got this one right
but i suppose if it makes them feel better within themselves who am i to argue
Penetrative sex is the only one on the list which is classed as Not Cheating. Ummmmm, I don't think so! Maybe that discussion should involve his wife!
lol im pretty sure she wouldnt be impressed at the fact he was seeing an escort let alone trying to justify him not acctually cheating on her lol
Some men are very dillusional personally I think that they are just trying to convince themselves that what they are doing is ok
I do not understand how his wife would be getting "mutual pleasure"? Is she watching?
So, taking that he is talking about him and the escort, if she is not getting "mutual pleasure" from being kissed by the guy or the other items listed, then surely that also becomes cheating?
But of course, we always get "mutual pleasure" from every guys we see, just in different way to him, ours is in the first five minutes of the meeting when he parts with the cash....
Ok, the last bit is a little cynical and we do get to meet some lovely guys, but some really are on a different planet to us.
sorry the list was what we had to do together & how he classed them, the ones in brackets is how i class it
Interesting comments on cheating. I take the view that meeting an escort is cheating but I do think that I would be less in the shite for seeing an escort than having an affair. I agree both are cheating but possibly seeing the escort is less so.
I would imagine the escort would be seen as less of a threat than the mistress.
Then again I am a man, and most likely wrong lol
welcome to the forum monty
(28-06-2011, 16:34)lolo Wrote: [ -> ]welcome to the forum monty
Why thank you kind lady
(28-06-2011, 16:41)monty69 Wrote: [ -> ] (28-06-2011, 16:34)lolo Wrote: [ -> ]welcome to the forum monty
Why thank you kind lady
that means i have 2 places to tease u now