06-10-2015, 08:30
Where ever I work I do not run bookings back to back, least of all hotels and I have missed calls sometimes I've nipped to the loo, or have been on a phone call which takes longer than expected.
(06-10-2015, 05:06)Nova70 Wrote: [ -> ]this kind of thing has been tried but as soon as punters become aware of it the wg concerned will see a big drop in business.
(06-10-2015, 07:30)wife4rent Wrote: [ -> ](06-10-2015, 05:06)Nova70 Wrote: [ -> ].... so he sent a text to get the room number and she should have given it to him,
It really does show what a nob you are.....
As he had been asked to call her that is what he should of done, where do you get off on she should do what he wants? I have many guys requesting I do anal, are you suggesting that I should do it if that is what they want, regardless of me not offering that? No wonder I think your an idiot
It is not for you to judge on the rights and wrongs of why she has asked him to call and whilst she may not be able to see him, she may ask him to confirm something in the local area to show that he is there. Or in certain circumstances, the hotel room may not be that easy to find, so not something that easy to explain in a text.
I have worked in flats where I do make sure I can see the person before giving the door number and I have no shortage of customers. And whilst I do not vet them as to if I wish to see them or not, if I did that would be my choice to do so.
Sarah x x x
(06-10-2015, 13:00)Nova70 Wrote: [ -> ](06-10-2015, 07:30)wife4rent Wrote: [ -> ](06-10-2015, 05:06)Nova70 Wrote: [ -> ].... so he sent a text to get the room number and she should have given it to him,
It really does show what a nob you are.....
As he had been asked to call her that is what he should of done, where do you get off on she should do what he wants? I have many guys requesting I do anal, are you suggesting that I should do it if that is what they want, regardless of me not offering that? No wonder I think your an idiot
It is not for you to judge on the rights and wrongs of why she has asked him to call and whilst she may not be able to see him, she may ask him to confirm something in the local area to show that he is there. Or in certain circumstances, the hotel room may not be that easy to find, so not something that easy to explain in a text.
I have worked in flats where I do make sure I can see the person before giving the door number and I have no shortage of customers. And whilst I do not vet them as to if I wish to see them or not, if I did that would be my choice to do so.
Sarah x x x
Your twisting my words as usual, of course the likes/services list should be respected but if the wg in question has a set procedure which may incude eyeballing the client before giving the room number then she should clearly state that on her profile not drag punters along and then spring it on them, bbk did make the call but she didn't awnser, and I say again what would a call at that late stage really have told her.
If once in the room a wg decides she's not happy with the client for some reason such as a stroppy attitude or poor hygene then she's perfectly at liberty to say so and end the meeting, but how would seeing a client from a distance be of any benefit to her where issues like that are concerned.
(06-10-2015, 11:45)Ana_X Wrote: [ -> ](06-10-2015, 05:06)Nova70 Wrote: [ -> ]this kind of thing has been tried but as soon as punters become aware of it the wg concerned will see a big drop in business.
Careful nova, you're sounding a bit UKP there. My own personal outlook is that I'd rather see a handful of clients for the right reasons than masses of them for the wrong. The lady in question has set up her own system to make herself feel secure, nobody has the right to tell her to ignore that and give the prospective client what they want. The client has no right to her service, just as she has no obligation to carry out any pre agreed service if she gets even the slightest inclination that things don't feel right about someone.
And you think her system is tough? Here's mine (granted I'm not an escort, but I still allow people to meet me alone) .
1) I get a call (witheld numbers are rejected) asking if I'm available, we have a LONG discussion about what does NOT go on here, we discuss MY personal limits (no touching of me, no nudity on my part, no intimate body contact or any form of sex) and then his personal limits (for example, no knives, needles, scat), what his primary interest is in terms of fetishes/activities etc.
If his primary interest is focused around him having a wank once he's been 'subjected' to activities agreed upon - game over. Nice chatting and all, but not the client for me, no appointment offered.
If he isn't concerned about jacking off and understands that a session with me is about the experience of my capabilities as a Dominatrix - we proceed.
2) He is then given my bank deposit details and told the value of the deposit to be made within a certain time period. If it's a same day booking he's given no more than two hours, if booked in advance (by weeks or months, both aren't uncommon) he's given 24 hours. If the deposit isn't made within the time period given, I text him and tell him the appointment is cancelled. Any further attempt to reschedule an appointment will require full payment up front.
- If he says he doesn't use online banking, he is instructed to pay in branch over the counter.
- If he says he can't or doesn't want to do that he is told an appointment will not be offered.
- If he asks to pay by paypal, amazon giftcard or any other means it is simply rejected and no appointment offered
3) Once a deposit is received the appointment is then written in PEN in my diary (previously erasable pencil) and scheduled to go ahead.
4) Day of the appointment he is instructed to call TWO HOURS prior to the scheduled time to confirm he is still attending. If he doesn't call at all the deposit is kept as he has already been told it is non returnable.
- If he calls and says he cannot make the appointment but wants to reschedule for X day at X time, he is instructed to make a further deposit by X time. The the first and second deposit will go towards the total cost of his session.
- If on the day of the rearranged appointment there is no confirmation, the appointment is cancelled and deposit withheld. It will not be transferable again.
5) If the client confirms at the specific time given to him he is then given a postcode and told to park in the area then call back at five minutes to appointment time to give him walking details to location.
- If the client is traveling by public transport he is told which rail station is nearest and told to call at ten minutes to appointment time to get walking details from the train station.
- If the client say's they're traveling by TAXI, they are instructed to go to a nearby landmark and call at ten minutes to appointment time for walking details to location.
So, why all these hoops to jump through? Because I make the rules, that's why. And any potential client willing and able to oblige my protocol is a client with respect for how I operate is the type of client I want to work with.
Those who don't or won't filter themselves out.
(06-10-2015, 06:14)xKatieBabyx Wrote: [ -> ]Looks like Nova is a novice at punting as well as webcamming lol. The 'WG's' as you call them are in control every time sweetie. They are the ones putting themselves at risk, and it is YOU who needs them, not the other way around. You play by their rules, including doing as asked.
(06-10-2015, 13:11)Nova70 Wrote: [ -> ]Of course you are perfectly entitled to apply any rules you wish to ensure your safety and security but you make your rules clear before accepting a booking you don't spring this stuff on a client just a few minutes beforehand do you, I'm simply saying it's not fair to expect guys to turn up and then tell them this stuff, who knows they could have travelled some distance only to be told they don't fit the bill that's unproffesional and unacceptable.
(06-10-2015, 13:08)Strawberryblonde Wrote: [ -> ](06-10-2015, 13:00)Nova70 Wrote: [ -> ](06-10-2015, 07:30)wife4rent Wrote: [ -> ](06-10-2015, 05:06)Nova70 Wrote: [ -> ].... so he sent a text to get the room number and she should have given it to him,
It really does show what a nob you are.....
As he had been asked to call her that is what he should of done, where do you get off on she should do what he wants? I have many guys requesting I do anal, are you suggesting that I should do it if that is what they want, regardless of me not offering that? No wonder I think your an idiot
It is not for you to judge on the rights and wrongs of why she has asked him to call and whilst she may not be able to see him, she may ask him to confirm something in the local area to show that he is there. Or in certain circumstances, the hotel room may not be that easy to find, so not something that easy to explain in a text.
I have worked in flats where I do make sure I can see the person before giving the door number and I have no shortage of customers. And whilst I do not vet them as to if I wish to see them or not, if I did that would be my choice to do so.
Sarah x x x
Your twisting my words as usual, of course the likes/services list should be respected but if the wg in question has a set procedure which may incude eyeballing the client before giving the room number then she should clearly state that on her profile not drag punters along and then spring it on them, bbk did make the call but she didn't awnser, and I say again what would a call at that late stage really have told her.
If once in the room a wg decides she's not happy with the client for some reason such as a stroppy attitude or poor hygene then she's perfectly at liberty to say so and end the meeting, but how would seeing a client from a distance be of any benefit to her where issues like that are concerned.
Eyeballing for me was to make sure the person was there, I had quite a few call or text saying they were around the corner, and then disappear. I had no way of telling if they were in the vicinity or pulling my leg. Never had someone no show after I started doing that...........I also wanted to make sure the person didn't have a mask on - I had an armed robbery a few years back and if I'd looked at the person before letting them in I'd have seen they were wearing a mask or at least had chance to see their face. It can also help protect against anyone who might try and turn up with their mates. None of this is fool proof however it's all stuff that can minimise some of the risks.
Sighting a client doesn't however give any indication of how you'll get along, or tell you whether he's had a bath or not.
I always found great benefit in explaining the procedure at the time of booking, the client can then either accept it or have the option to not go ahead before anyone has reserved time or travelled.
(06-10-2015, 18:46)Pixie Wrote: [ -> ]I Usually have my sub's call me when they get to my road, and then I give them my building and flat number. If I miss their call, then I call them back. She should have called him back really but maybe she had no credit or she was worried about them both calling at the same time and getting engaged tones.
I think it is perfectly acceptable for escorts to "eyeball" their clients before giving them their house\ flat details. Strawberry has a good point about the masks and/or friends. Also, it is well known that clients will set up new aw accounts and phone numbers in order to book an escort that he had previously seen and the girl did not want to see him again for whatever reason.
I think that the thing you are missing Nova, is how dangerous it is to be an escort. It is hard to protect ourselves and so we do what we can. Escorts across the country are so often subjected to being robbed, beaten, raped and non consensual bareback. And thats just the worst things. The smaller being unhygienic clients, rude clients, time wasters that have a thing for finding out escort addresses, clients secretly filming etc
Escorts have to put procedures in place to do their best to protect themselves.
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