OK So I thought,
I would see ieveryones opinion and ideas on what do clients actually WANT!! does anybody know can anyone answer this question.
So I've been in this line of work for a while and not going to lie I thought it would be a walk in the part but oh my goodness it is so not. Being an escort is not just about providing your time but a lot of marketing goes into the job as well. But in a sense you cant market the right people if you dont know what they want.
So I want to hear from both clients and escorts what do you think our clintel want these day because cor blimey one minute they want PSE next thing they are all into Anal it seems like there is no winning!!
So what is everyones views.
Lissy x
Perhaps you are looking at it the wrong way around?
There are all kinds of guys out there wanting everything you could possibly imagine and more. We can't be all things to all men, though.
I think you have to decide what your offering is, specialise in that, and then try to figure out how to get the message out to the right demographic to appeal to your particular service. Rewrite your profile to specifically cater to the service you offer and upload content which shows the essence of it, what ever "it" is.
Trying to appeal to the mass market will put you right up against some of the cheapest prices because so many girls are trying to hit that mark... perhaps better to carve yourself out a little niche? What have you got which you could capitalise on? What is it about you which means guys should come to see you at £160 for an hour rather than go see Dirty Dorris down Southampton Docks who'll do it for fifty quid?
Find your unique selling point, decide upon the "shape" of your offering, then focus on marketing to that demographic.
(20-12-2012, 00:37)lissysweets Wrote: [ -> ]OK So I thought, I would see everyone's opinion and ideas on what clients actually WANT!! does anybody know can anyone answer this question.
Sex with a slut....
But that is all I offer and all I do, I do not cater for fantasies / role play / dressing up games / social therapy (general chat).
Sarah x x x
I do hear what your saying Trinty, i think over this festive period im going to properly think about who I want to client.
Miss wife @ home I like how you keep it short, sweet and blunt straight to the point lool
There are all sorts of people out there, so it's about what you are comfortable to offer. People who ask you to do other stuff without reading your profile, tell them to find someone else.
hi lissy
like everyone's said, all clients are different but if you aren't finding it a 'walk in the park' then, like trinity said, you are attracting the wrong clients.
i find the great majority of clients just want GFE and usually OWO - they may ask for something outlandish but its probably just the idea of it they like.
Don't have stuff on your profile that you don't enjoy and you shouldn't attract the clients that want that, e.g. i don't have anal listed in my likes and it hasn't affected my income (don't get me wrong, if its discussed first and something we both want to do i won't rule it out) - its really important to enjoy what you do as your clients will pick up on it and also - what a head fuck to be doing something you're not into.
Lissysweets
As a client what I want will depend on various factors such as mood, cash, urgency, timescale and most importantly what the escort is advertising as her "likes or favourites". I usually like gee/pse type sex in that I enjoy cuddling, kissing but want the slutty porno experience with facial, CIM etc.
so if I were browsing your profile and you did not list OWO and CIM as likes but another girl as equally attractive did then I would most likely pick her over you and ice versa provided major factors such as distance and cost were on par .
Hope that helps , I am sure it will not as clients are mostly not sure what they want. I find best bet is talk to girl on phone. If she sounds enthusiastic when you mention what you as the client wants then the chances are she will be fun. If she just says, OWO will be £20 extra, CIM will £20 extra etc..... Or just sounds robotic or worse can't understand what you want then walk away
Joe
It's best to offer as many different services as you feel comfortable with. If it's something you're prepared to do but don't really enjoy, then charge extra for it (and make that very clear on your profile). Personally, if I'm in the mood for something unusual, I'd rather go to someone who offers it at no extra charge, because this implies that she actually enjoys it and will be good at it.
Sometimes guys want a particular service, and sometimes they want a particular sort of woman (ethnicity, physique, age, a pretty face, or whatever). And sometimes availability is an issue (especially in more rural areas where escorts are somewhat rare: perhaps you might be the only one available on a client's route home from work, or reachable in his lunch break, or on a Sunday morning).
Also, "services" doesn't have to mean anal, BDSM or whatever. For instance, surprisingly few escorts offer to share a jacuzzi with a client.
(03-01-2013, 23:13)Simon Wrote: [ -> ]Also, "services" doesn't have to mean anal, BDSM or whatever. For instance, surprisingly few escorts offer to share a jacuzzi with a client.
To be fair... I think most decent girls would be happy to do that!
But we can't really list it on your profiles... we could end up with a list as long as your arm.
I've had jacuzzis and baths with clients. Occasionally showers, but I'm less keen on those because I don't like to get my hair wet. At least in the bath I can tie my hair up to keep it dry. But it is not something I would even have thought of putting on my profile... like I wouldn't put cuddling on my profile... or back scratching...
...Well, perhaps I should have said that most girls don't specify that they have a jacuzzi available.
I've also seen a couple of profiles where the escort offers bath/shower facilities "off the clock" (presumably not shared!), rather than expecting a client to shower within his booked time.
Also, while some escorts offer "tie and tease" or BDSM, they usually don't specify what equipment they have for that, which could be a selling point.