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Going back to the favourite positions thread. Do you do things differently when you are Escorting to when you are being intimate with a buddy/partner?

Me being single, I tend to treat my clients as a prospective partner, ie, I would do with them, what I would do in my normal life. Obviously each client is different and their needs change, but when I'm in control, then I literally just do what I like, while trying to be mindful of their pleasure too. Mood also has a huge impact on this and of course what tackle I am presented with, or skills at the end of their tongue/finger tips.

My question is. Do your preferences change much between partner or client? Are there some things you would do with a partner that you would not do with a client? Why?

I suppose one thing that I don't do during work is anal and I'm not totally adverse to it, but I feel it is definitely a 'giving' thing for me and I need to trust the person I am with and know that it is not the focus of the intercourse, or I would rather not do it at all, so would be more inclined to do it now and again with a partner, but otherwise it is off the menu.

I can't think of anything else. Even if I started dating I would insist on condoms until it got serious.
Didn't mind which position as long as the Cock wasn't to big on a few of them lol.

No Anal, No BB, No Hardsports, No Rape.

Did kiss a few but wanted that for me and BF only!

Escorting - I had fun like a one nite stand.

BF - Nice it's making love

There are a couple of things that I do keep solely for me and hubby anal being one of them to do it i have to be totally relaxed and in the mood as well as trusting the person 100%and even with hubby it is not always comfortable so I no he will instantly stop if asked.

watersports is another one I simply could not pee infront of strangers and even with hubby the same as anal sometimes just does not happen
i like missionary just for me and my bf....its really intimate

i tend to suggest doggy as most men love it, or me on top lol
When with hubby it is making love all more sensual & slow so to speak when do with camera with hubbys mates/members etc it is filthy sex!.

I do do anal BB only with hubby and always protected with anyone else and kissing I only do with hubby. Dirty Messy anal only when camming as not hubbys thing.

Me and hubby enjoy each other he especially likes to share (hence swingers) but with others I seem to enjoy the "raw sex" of it hard deep filthy sex as I love it rough and being used and then the flip side when not feeling like being a whore just close loving nice to be able to have both!Tongue