Blocked by an escort!

[JustCallMePaul]

Hi, this is so frustrating! i have been blocked by an beautiful escort that looks sensational! the problem i have is OK she's blocked me! that's fair enough! but i had to find out the reason why? so i created a 2nd aw profile because obviously i can't email her on my main profile! so i created a 2nd profile to email her and explain myself! now this is very strange? she replied "OK Paul give me your mobile number and i will call you!" i thought great she has unblocked me! then the next day i was going through my contacts on my mobile and i noticed i still had her mobile number from a while ago! so i thought why not text her! so i did just saying "Hi Babe! its Paul thanks for unblocking me!" and she sent a text back saying "can't understand how you think i am speaking to you now! as i need to set you straight and ask for no more contact. take care!" i simply could not believe what i was reading! how can someone ask for my mobile number and i send her a text and she replies with this message! i still don't have any reason why she's turned against me! when all i want to do is see this stunner of an escort! any ideas how i can change her mind or win her over to book her! there are three ways i can still contact her though! create a 3rd temp profile! or make a booking with her on my main profile! which enables me to leave her feedback even if the booking is cancelled and finally her mobile number! thanks for any advice! much appreciated!

[Nova70]

Hi Paul, I think your probably flogging a dead horse here and she's made up her mind. Now I don't know the ins and outs of this but I know some wgs won't indulge in email ping pong, if you've got a question to ask that's not answered on the profile then fair enough but personally I only send a couple of emails prior to booking.

It's not a good idea to create extra accounts especially on the same device as some SP's can see that and having aliases will make it difficult for you to book anyone as it's viewed as suspicious.

[annabelle]

Lots of girls block guys for being rude or asking discounts or the way they come across. It is her choice and you should respect that: maybe you remind her of somebody and she cannot bear to be near you.

Would you like to be 'chased' by somebody you do not fancy and only brings bad memories?

There are plenty of nice girls out there, try your luck with somebody else.

[Ana_X]

I've blocked countless people, some with explanation and some not.

She's under no obligation to give you an appointment. For whatever reason it may be, she doesn't want to meet you - so move on to the next.

[Strawberryblonde]

Why on earth did you think asking for your number meant that she'd unblocked you?

I would guess that she wanted your number to check against any notes she'd made about why she'd blocked you. She might have not even gotted around to checking, then she sees your text and assumption.

Creating multiple profiles only makes you look suspicious. I always tell the person why I've blocked them and to be honest it's rare I have to block anyone.

[JustCallMePaul]

thanks for your reply's guys and girls! first of all let me explain why i created multiple profile's three to be exact! ok i was blocked by a few escorts i really wanted to see on my main profile! i had no other way of explaining myself to them other than booking them which enabled me to leave feedback regardless if they cancelled the booking or not! but i thought this isn't really fair on there feedback! so the only other way was to create a 2nd profile with my details just like on my 1st profile! this then gave me the chance to explain in detail my 5 negative feedbacks to them! and the success rate has been 50/50 which is good really! so then i thought how can i communicate which the others that have still blocked me! now this maybe wrong or maybe right? i created a 3rd profile with the intention of creating a new adultwork member not related to me! so we could send emails back and forth so they get to know me and realise i'm actually a decent guy then suddenly i tell them who i really am! the aim is for them to unblock me so i can shut-down my 2nd and 3rd profile! but this back fired as i didn't realise your 1st profile shows your alias! though if i wanted to i could actually overcome this by using my VPN connection to change my IP and a separate laptop accessing my 2nd profile! this just seemed to much messing around for me! now back to the escort that has blocked me! i first saw her about 7 months ago and instantly new i wanted to book her so i sent her an email with my mobile wrote on down on it! a couple of days later! a saturday afternoon i fell asleep when i awoke i noticed she had phone me because i had already put her into my contacts list using her mobile number on her profile! so i straight away phoned her back but there was no answer! and i fully understand she might have been in an awkward situation and could not answer! so i left her a text message which basically said call me! 5 days later still no contact! so i phoned her again no answer! so i text her again no reply! mean-while i noticed clients leaving her feedback saying got in-touch with her today, booked her today and saw her today! this really got to me because i now knew she was ignoring me for no apparent reason! then i admit i probably sent her too many texts and emails resulting in her blocking me! this left me with no other choice but just to leave it and me totally confused! after all she contacted me 1st via her mobile! so thats how it was left for 5-6 months! until i created a 2nd profile and fully explained to her my 5 negatives feedbacks in absolute complete detail! to my amazement she replied "Hi Paul nice to hear from you i will unblock you straight away give me your mobile number again and i will call you!" so that's what i did i gave her my mobile number 2 days later i was going through my contacts list and noticed i still had her mobile number! what i didn't realise was to check if her mobile was still on her profile! which it wasn't! anyway i text her saying! "Hi Babe! thanks for unblocking me and working things out with me! i would love to book you when your next available!" that's all i wrote! then i was stunned when moments later she replied "Can't understand how you think i am speaking to you now as I've completely ignored you until now and need to set you straight and ask for no more contact!" she hadn't completely ignored me at all! she emailed me two days before asking for my mobile number! this to me is very strange and extremely weird! how an escort can turn on you just like that! i wouldn't normally be bothered but it's an escort i really want to see! because i think she looks beautiful and just sensational! it's just so frustrating when you have said nothing at all to her out of order! xxx the mind boggles!! lol xxx

[Nova70]

This one seems to have become just to complicated Paul and I think you should draw a line under it, you know the score......you really want to see this one now but tomorrow you could come across another profile you like even more, it never pays to get hung up on any particular one and sometimes you just have to accept it's not going to happen, there have been several over the years that I've really wanted to see but for one reason or another it just didn't work out, it was a shame at the time but I don't dwell on it I just notch it up to fate.

[Strawberryblonde]

My first tip would be learn to write in paragraphs without exclaimation marks.

If you write like that in your emails, plus all the complex profiles and contact it's no wonder they've blocked you.

You might be better asking for advice on making contact, than repeatedly making yourself look like someone to avoid.

[HarlotWitch]

It's very upsetting to get blocked by friends without explanation, and sometimes it can become a form of social exclusion/bullying when you're dealing with cliques, etc. it's happened to me and people I know a lot.

But in this case you're not dealing with someone you personally know but people in a very sensitive line of work, doing their best to protect themselves. Generally if we feel something even a bit off, our first instinct is to protect ourselves. It may not even be personal. A lot of "sensational" escorts have a lot of people to keep track of, so perhaps she got mixed up and asked for your number not sure of who you were. If someone you barely know has blocked you, you're probably not going to be able to negotiate your way out of it so unless you're 100% sure there's a mixup and can prove it, it's just a waste of both your times.

You need to respect the boundaries of sex workers as it is precarious work. I'm sure there are plenty more great escorts out there. As others have said, I would look for advice on making contact.

[Vincent]

humm why are you making so much problem to try to contact her? maybe is drilling an alarm on her head and she just don`t trust you for some reasons. Try to put yourself on her point of view. Is a very dangerus work, can be full of satisfaction and rewards. And can be an hell dealing with wrong people. Some customer are gentleman, quite atractive and generous. Some are disgusting, dirty and asshole. Or just psyco....

I agree to the comment above.
Just you need to respect her wish.