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A lot of frustration
#1
On a Sunday evening, I was hoping to spend some lovely time with a nice lady before going back to work the next day. It has come to my attention that, organizing a booking is far more frustrating than ever. It all started when I text a lady named Eliza after finding her profile. Text are as below:

Me: Are you free today at 16:00? If so, can you send me your address?
Eliza: 7 **** *****, *** 5**
Me: Okay cool, I will book through AW for 16:00. Do you have room number?
Eliza: Call me when you there

[I departed house to get there and 10 mins before arriving, I text again]

Me: I will be there in 10mins. What is your room detail?
Eliza: Call me when you outside

[I arrived outside hotel and called]
[Call rejected]

Eliza: Texted to say: Pls text me
Me: Can you tell me your room number?
Eliza: Where are you?
Me: I told you I am outside.
Eliza: Call me
Me: Forget it

[I decided to leave at this point as we are getting nowhere but going around in circles]
5 mins later...I got a text from her

Eliza: You fucking liar
Me: I was there, but you kept messing around
Eliza: I don't see rude people

I mean, what else did she want in the communication? Location confirmed, time agreed, Booked through AW, I have positive feedbacks. Text and called as she requested. Only an idiot would of stayed.
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#2
This is standard practise. You only get the room number when she can either see you with her own eyes (from a window etc) or otherwise confirm you are there, look like a decent human being, and are alone. You book an escort you play by her rules, that's the way it goes. Follow instructions next time.
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#3
bbk even without giving the name of the hotel you just identified it and that's not the done thing mate so please edit it.

If your stories straight up then yes she's messed you around, if she requested a call and then didn't answer you had no choice but to text if you'd have made the second call she requested then who knows but I understand that when that kind of thing happens it starts to give you doubts about how the meet itself will go.

Katie it is not "standard practice" for the wg to eyeball the client from a window before she gives a room number, the first glimpse she'll get will be through the spy hole in the door, I punt in the busiest parts of London so even if her room has a street view I'm not going to stand there waving my arms looking like a twat am I, not very discreet either is it, it just isn't on for a wg to think that she can agree a booking and expect the punter to identify himself from a distance first before she decides whether or not she's going to see him and I've never met a true pro who does that, some like a call just to hear your voice but in my experience a text five minutes before when your outside is usually good enough.
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#4
Badboy, if you were there and made the effort to travel all the way to see the girl, why on earth wouldn't you follow her security procedures designed to protect herself? 'Giving' up in the last minute speaks volumes to any person in her position. And swearing does not help either when you try to meet a new person.

I sincerely wish you better luck next time.
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#5
If I'd missed the call or rejected it by pressing the wrong number, or just been on another phone call, I would have phoned him myself.

So I think some of the responsbility lies with her.

However if I'd travelled all that way I'd have at least phoned her a second time.

When doing incalls I would talk people in and I made it clear that I needed clients to phone. One guy who was very text and email happy, had already cancelled after lots of messaging previously, phoned to confirm from a withheld which my phone rejects and which is clearly mentioned on my profile. We had an exchange of messages in which I advised on how to release the phone number. Then when we did speak he told me he didn't have credit on his mobile phone. I always explain booking day procedure at the time of booking which includes advising that a mobile call will be necessary. I explained he'd need to phone when in the area so I could give directions to the door, and he said he'd buy some credit on the way. He arrived and text saying he'd not bothered to top up.

Ok I did phone him to then talk him in, which wasn't a problem but it did feel really rude and meant that I felt he just wasn't bothered.

It just wasn't a great start. Perhaps it was better the meet didn't go ahead.

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#6
(20-09-2015, 20:38)badboykim23 Wrote: I mean, what else did she want in the communication? Location confirmed, time agreed, Booked through AW, I have positive feedbacks. Text and called as she requested. Only an idiot would of stayed.

Errr.... i think you will find that she wanted you to call her, as you told us she did in her text and then you told her to forget it.

(21-09-2015, 00:44)Nova70 Wrote: If your stories straight up then yes she's messed you around, if she requested a call and then didn't answer you had no choice but to text if you'd have made the second call she requested then who knows but I understand that when that kind of thing happens it starts to give you doubts about how the meet itself will go.

Really? That almost contradicts itself, but shows what a nob you are at giving advice, Do you do not understand that people do get cut off accidentally, especially if you are just ending a call with another punter.

(05-10-2015, 11:56)Strawberryblonde Wrote: If I'd missed the call or rejected it by pressing the wrong number, or just been on another phone call, I would have phoned him myself.

So I think some of the responsbility lies with her.

Personally I don't see any responsibility lies with her, I do not call guys or text them, they HAVE to call me. Besides, I only ever have £10 of credit on my work phone.

Sometimes you may cut people off by accident, this happens, I would never call a person back in case they are trying to call you again. This just adds to the confusion.

Also, I have guys that do not understand the meaning of call me when you are at the hotel, they seem to think any time on the journey is a good time to call.

(05-10-2015, 11:56)Strawberryblonde Wrote: However if I'd travelled all that way I'd have at least phoned her a second time.

You would have thought so, especially as she asked him to call her again, so his frustration should be with himself for being such an idiot.

Sarah x x x
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#7
He made the orignial call as requested but got no reply, nothing unusual about that if she's using an hotel she's probably doing back to back bookings and may have been showering or whatever after seeing the previous client so he sent a text to get the room number and she should have given it to him, some wg's do like a chat on the phone prior to a booking but what would a phone call at this late stage have told her as presumably it would have gone like this.........bbk "Hi it's bbk can I have the room number".........wg "yes it's number 361", if she thinks she can drag punters along and then vet them on the phone or even eyeball them to decide if she wants to see them then I'm afraid she's on another planet, this kind of thing has been tried but as soon as punters become aware of it the wg concerned will see a big drop in business.

There is absolutely no way I would hang about outside a hotel just so the wg could spot me and then decide if she wanted to see me or not, this has never happened to me but if it did I'd be more than a little pissed off and I would name and shame her in a negative review because it's a totally unproffesional attitude, you did the right thing when you walked bbk because even if you had got to see her it would probably have been a punt to forget, better to have wasted your time than wasted your money.
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#8
And anyway Sarah where do you get off lecturing people about how to do things, you've already admitted you take more than one booking for the same time slot, it's no wonder you think punters are idiots YOUR clients are idiots if they put up with nonsense like that. I've seen some of the best known women on AW and yes some do like a chat on the phone when your arranging the booking but on the day a text for the room number has always been sufficent and the first time they see me will be through the spy hole in the door, if a woman goes into this thinking she will only shag blokes she finds attractive then she will probably starve.
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#9
Looks like Nova is a novice at punting as well as webcamming lol. The 'WG's' as you call them are in control every time sweetie. They are the ones putting themselves at risk, and it is YOU who needs them, not the other way around. You play by their rules, including doing as asked.
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#10
(06-10-2015, 05:06)Nova70 Wrote: .... so he sent a text to get the room number and she should have given it to him,

It really does show what a nob you are.....

As he had been asked to call her that is what he should of done, where do you get off on she should do what he wants? I have many guys requesting I do anal, are you suggesting that I should do it if that is what they want, regardless of me not offering that? No wonder I think your an idiot

It is not for you to judge on the rights and wrongs of why she has asked him to call and whilst she may not be able to see him, she may ask him to confirm something in the local area to show that he is there. Or in certain circumstances, the hotel room may not be that easy to find, so not something that easy to explain in a text.

I have worked in flats where I do make sure I can see the person before giving the door number and I have no shortage of customers. And whilst I do not vet them as to if I wish to see them or not, if I did that would be my choice to do so.

Sarah x x x
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