Call me back?

[badboykim23]

When using the e-mail feature on AW to contact girls. Most of the time comes back with: Call me back, or Please call me.

Okay, so I might be asking whereabouts her apartment is and I understand privacy issues, but I am only asking for example: name of street to get an idea of the location before making an appointment. Rather than made booking then realize location is too far or inconvenient parking.

On one or two occasions, the girl would only give out her door number at the very last minute upon my arrival, after many calls and text (I suspect the madam was peeking out the window to see who is at the door > joke)

I don't bother with these any more, unless the girl is super hot and I am determined to meet her

Has someone came across a similar experience?

[xKatieBabyx]

They do for safety

[admin]

Hi, it has the potential to weed out the time wasters. Unfortunately genuine members like yourself will also have to make the call.

From the providers point of view, they get alot of endless messages from people with no intention of booking, people whos fantasy is just to go through the motions of booking but never doing it.

Im sure the providers dont mind a quick call asking for rough location though, if they dont have a location mentioned on their profile then they will be expecting calls about location.

[Strawberryblonde]

Are you trying to say you make an email enquiry about a potential booking and the reply is "Phone me?".

If so then yes some SPs like potential clients to phone, often it's easier to deal with an enquiry by telephone rather than having to log on. Also if a person is prepared to make a phone call it tends to indicate they are more likely to attend (but not always!).

[Diva Gina]

If I worked from a private residence there is no way I would give out the address or even street before the day of the booking, you might well be genuine but there is no shortage of unscrupulous punters. Many escorts never give out the full address and direct the client in on the telephone just before the booking. These are standard practices to protect ourselves.
Those of us who do incalls from hotel rooms tend to be more forthcoming, as it is deemed slightly safer for us, no risk of punters turning up knocking at the door when we are not expecting, for the neighbours to hear and there is often hotel CCTV etc to record who has been in/out the corridor or room. I will give out the name of the hotel I have booked in advance but I only disclose the room number a few minutes before, when the client calls to tell me he has arrived.

[richard0ne]

I have found this happens a lot , I find it easier to just call as long as there is a number to call

[sarahxxx]

I have found this happens a lot , I find it easier to just call as long as there is a number to call

Sensible man....

Personally I have no time for all this texting and find that most people that text are timewasters, a simple phone call is all it takes to find out the location of a person, probably quicker than the time it takes you to type out the text - input number, press call, or input number, press several buttons to compose text, press send.

I always have on my profile the Postcode (HIGHLIGHTED) of where I am working and always get several men ask me the location, as I did working the last two days in Northampton.

On my profile it also says no texts, but guess what....

Sarah x x x

[Simon]

I've heard that some girls like to hear a client's voice over the phone as part of their vetting process, but that seems odd to me... what can you really tell about a client from his voice? Only that he's a real person, I suppose. I have plenty of AW feedback, that seems to be enough to satisfy them. So generally I just text on the day of the meeting to confirm (after originally arranging the booking on AW), then if I'm not given a general location at that point, I'll text for approximate directions closer to the time, then text again about 10 minutes before the booking to let her know I'm nearby and waiting.

It's annoyingly stressful to not know in advance which part of town you should be in (for parking etc) well in advance. Some have left it rather late.

Texting has two advantages over calling: a text can wait until she's finished with a previous client, and it gives you something you can read clearly and refer back to (rather than mishearing the name of the hotel / street, getting a digit wrong in a postcode etc). I chose my current phone because it had a decent on-screen keyboard for texting: my previous one was a flip-open type with a numeric keypad, which was such a pain that I composed texts on my main smartphone, sent them to the other phone, then forwarded them on from there.

But if she wants me to call, I'll call. Though on one occasion I had to insist that she texted the name of the hotel, as I couldn't make it out due to her Romanian accent (I blamed a bad line).

[Strawberryblonde]

For me it makes it more likely a person will show, and that they are an adult male. Sometimes potential clients have questions which are easier answered in a quick phone call, than 20 texts or 20 emails. It can also be useful in spotting those who are drunk or drugged, and more than a couple of times I have been saved accepting a booking from someone who is well under the influence - which if I hadn't would have been a waste of their time as well as mine, not to mention potentially dangerous. I also have a chance of hearing others in the background and once again by speaking to someone who has been previously texting, I have avoided seeing men who are not 'alone', or are on a wind up(giggles and shouts in the background cannot be heard via text message!).

Sure a text is useful when otherwise engaged, and for those who have read my profile and can commit to a time I will happily do things by text so long as we've spoken in person at some point. I do sometimes drive my car, when I do I can't/won't answer texts. I have tried pulling over into laybys, but then I end up not getting anywhere fast. Once again I'll ask for a phone call which I'll then accept via my handsfree. Sometimes guys ignore that, or start texting "I'll phone you in 5 minutes", then "can I phone you now?", "is it ok to phone you now?" by which time I'm back on the road!

Unfortunately not everyone is as direct as that, and some have lots of questions so I will then either advise they put them into one email, or make a phone call.

Do also be aware sometimes texts can go missing, be accidentally deleted, not delivered for 2 days or not at all - all have happened to me including a text on the day which wasn't delivered for 5 hours. In the meantime I thought he wasn't attending, he thought I wasn't responding so we missed each other.

Text and email are useful, when used properly!

[sarahxxx]

I've heard that some girls like to hear a client's voice over the phone as part of their vetting process, but that seems odd to me... what can you really tell about a client from his voice? Only that he's a real person,

And an arrogant prick, depending on the way his convesation goes, you can tell a lot from a phone call, you can also get a better judge of if the guy is a timewaster, I usually get 9/10 right. If a guy comes across as pushy then you can judge if you want to give him a booking or not, when you have spoken to as many guys as I have, it is rare that you hear something that you were not being told 20 years ago by guys.

It's annoyingly stressful to not know in advance which part of town you should be in (for parking etc) well in advance. Some have left it rather late.

How would you not know? If you had already called the girl to make the booking she would have already told you what part of town she was in and I assume, have given you the street address or the postcode.

Sarah x x x