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Smithy115, I am in the same position to that which you describe, ie 50 and new to this. What I think must be realised is that this, and other forums like it, are frequented by trolls and timewasters. Unfortunately new posters can be treated with suspicion, and understandably so at times.

When questions such as some of those you have asked come up, I think people are initially suspicious, and then when they get a spiky response such as a couple of yours were, things can kick off.....

If you are genuinely new to this as I am, have a good read through threads already on here and the likes of punternet, and you will see most of the questions you have asked have been answered many times over.

My first post on here could have looked like possible trolling to some, but fortunately the replies were all extremely helpful, possibly due to the fact that when I was asked why I wanted to know, I replied in a polite manner, and didn't get aggressive, which is how some of your responses seem to have been regarded.

Just my 2 cents from a neutral observer in a similar situation to yourself....
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#32
(01-04-2013, 18:48)Sparky Wrote: Smithy115, I am in the same position to that which you describe, ie 50 and new to this. What I think must be realised is that this, and other forums like it, are frequented by trolls and timewasters. Unfortunately new posters can be treated with suspicion, and understandably so at times.

When questions such as some of those you have asked come up, I think people are initially suspicious, and then when they get a spiky response such as a couple of yours were, things can kick off.....

If you are genuinely new to this as I am, have a good read through threads already on here and the likes of punternet, and you will see most of the questions you have asked have been answered many times over.

My first post on here could have looked like possible trolling to some, but fortunately the replies were all extremely helpful, possibly due to the fact that when I was asked why I wanted to know, I replied in a polite manner, and didn't get aggressive, which is how some of your responses seem to have been regarded.

Just my 2 cents from a neutral observer in a similar situation to yourself....
Clients especially when new to this do often ask or say what they consider, and what would ordinarily be considered 'innocent' questions. I think it's useful for both service seekers and service providers to try and think from the other's point of view - if you were a service provider how would you feel being asked the same.

Then again lots of people aren't very good at empathy, so not necessarily guaranteed to work!

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#33
Thanks guys point taken ,this is a learning curve for me ,even at my age . By the way what is trolls?
Many thanks
Smithy
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#34
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Troll_(Internet)
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#35
Thanks Sparky that is not me I can assure everybody. From now on I will just read all the threads and learn. Cheers Smithy
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#36
Smithy assuming that by saying there may be hygiene issues if a girl had seen 5 men a day, you mean she hasn't showered in between?

Sure loads work like that but I can only speak for myself here.........

My target daily is 2 hour long clients but my limit is 3. I have a limit because anymore than that and I start to get sore and tired. I offer a full sexual service but I don't offer anything unprotected which many see as a negative factor (which I think is unfair) so I feel I really need to make an effort in other areas such as how I look and also to offer the best service of my ability within my boundary's so if I were to squeeze in another client then I am not sure I could deliver 100% and I don't want any bad reports if I can help it. I leave an hour to an hour and a half inbetween to get a shower, to do my hair and make up and change bedding etc.

To ask such a question is far too varied to get the answer your probably looking for IMO.

If you have specific standards (which your completely entitled to) then choose your escort carefully and if she's not up to scratch when you get there then you can always walk away (with your money)

I have guys phone me all the time asking if I am available NOW (which does my fecking head in). It shows they haven't read my profile at all and that they must think I sit in my underwear all day/nite long just waiting on the phone ringing like some sort of conveyor belt which couldn't be any further from the truth. I prefer advance bookings (even just the day before) so that I know what I am doing with my day and can work my freshen up time inbetween bookings accordingly and also so that I can do other things (as I'd go mad stuck in a flat all day) like see friends for lunch or go shopping, go to the bank, go for a facial (no not that kind of facial) and on the off chance I am sitting around in my flat and don't have a client booked in then I STILL require at least an hours notice to jump in the shower, do hair and make up and organise my work space.

You will find lots of other escorts can be ready in a lot less time but as I am a perfectionist with make up and stuff, it takes me a little longer.

Moral of the story is please don't assume we're all sweaty, unwashed prossies reeking of sex......granted some are but you can easily spot them or like I said walk away (before handing over your money) if things aren't up to scratch. If its too late and you have already handed over your money then tell her there and then that you want to leave and get a refund as her hygiene is not up to your standards which means she hasn't stuck to her end of the deal, escorts are the first ones to tell clients off for being smelly so you should too though I hate confrontation so I usually grin and bear a smelly bugger then just save his number so I can avoid him for future bookings.

If your really worried about cleanliness then you could always check her profile to see when she starts work and book her for that time or if she offers shared showers on her likes list then you could ask her to share a shower with you. Failing all that then don't see escorts as shagging several men a day is what we do lol.

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