What is your ideal relationship or status?

[English Kate]

I got thinking about this when answering a post off Tom.

What is your ideal situation to be in?

Do you prefer to be single and see people when it suits you with no ties?
Be married and play away with their permission, but woe betide if they do?
Have an open relationship, after all you love each other and no one is going to break that bond?
Swing together but never play alone.
See other people behind your partners back, after all what they don't know won't hurt them?
You are always monogomous in relationships and prefer this.

I have set the poll so you can choose more than one option if you want to and that your name will show in the result, please be aware of this if posting.

I personally would rather be single than in a relationship that wasn't right, but think I would want to be monogomous within a relationship. I think my only weakness would be missing MMF, which I love doing and of course it would mean giving upEscorting, so they would have to be some man to make me want to do that.

[abcdef]

im stuck between a open relationship & being single

[sophieofyork]

i'd definitely want the monogamy.....but i'm not sure i'd want to give up escorting. I've always said I would for the right man but i don't know if i'd just like to keep it secret from him...

[Emily of Halifax]

This is a difficult one to answer for me totally monogamous as far as my marriage goes but I dont really no how it works as i escort, the only way I can explain it is I would never ever have an affair and couldnt handle an open relationship

[Tom30]

Open relationship. Where you both set each other limits such as do's and donts... a bit like a game i suppose.

Ive no problem what so ever with it, but trying to find a girl who is similar minded and who i fancy is, seems theres more chance of winning the lottery.

Id rather be in a relationship, as ive always been ready to settle down, i just wish i could find a girl who is very open minded towards sex. Im not saying i want to be able to shag other girls, i honestly can say ive always been faithful to my ex's and if theres true love between us id never feel the need to shag anyone else, but i do have this turn on knowing/seeing her shag other men. Ive no problem with it as long as she knows how to separate feelings from the sex so she wont run off some super duper amazing stud.

[SassyAnn]

I would rather stay single at the moment, but I'm drawn to Tom's idea - which is how it sounds it works for Emily too.

I think it's highly unlikely to happen for me, so single I will remain!

[Emily of Halifax]

I would rather stay single at the moment, but I'm drawn to Tom's idea - which is how it sounds it works for Emily too.

I think it's highly unlikely to happen for me, so single I will remain!

I think I am in a very unique situation I escorted before I met my husband and met him through a client that I used to see we became very good friends to the point if if was doing outcalls he would be the one that I would ring so someone new where I was.

We ended up being so close he asked me out one night I said yes that was the Friday night he moved in with me on the Saturday and asked me to marry him on the Sunday and I said yes and believe me I had not even slept with him at that point.

He has always known what I do for a living but he does not get the gorry details there are thing that he does not need to no and accepts that we laugh about the strange funny calls and is there if I am down or if I need support.

Clients find it very strange when they ask me me if I live on my own or if I have a partner and they cant seem to understamd it but for us it i how it has always been this way

So to me this is the ideal relationship for me and would not change it for the world

[SassyAnn]

Emily, that sounds wonderful.

I have a friend who I met on-line, before I did this. We chat every night via Skype text, and meet up for a major shagging session once every couple of months. But he lives miles away. We're never going to live in the same country, let alone together! He's gorgeous and funny and irritating and I do miss him when he's not here. But, I'm crap at relationships, so him being so far away is a blessing really!

[English Kate]

Would you say being monogomous is more a state of mind than physical? As in your heart and soul is with that one person, even though physically you can be with others?

If this is the case, bearing in mind that men find it easier (generally) to detach themselves from emotions than us girlies. Why is it that you would not be able to let him do the same and be happy?

In a lot of ways, I think maybe that is how I feel too, but then I can't help but feel it is selfish of me to want to be in a loving relationship with someone who is not allowed to stray from me sexually, while I would continue to Escort. It doesn't matter how professional I am about it being a business. I'm still enjoying the sex.

[niceguy27!!]

I would like to be able stray away from girl friend but I know it would end the relationship if I got caught and I love her so much that I couldnt lose her.
An ex of mine was an escort and she wouldnt let me sleep with anyone else, but from my side of it she was constantly gagging for it and it was nice being with a such horny dirty sex manic, knowing that your gf totally loves sex and seperate her emotions from it was awesome.