My first time, to nervous to perform HELP

[panzerstudio]

Just been with my first Escort
After making a reverse booking and finally excepting one who was visiting the area to see friends that day, my nerves went mad

I'm 39 and the lady is 29, size 8 blonde a real stunner I could not believe my eyes
She smelt sooo nice, but as it was my first time I did not know how to be with her as I am a very shy person

She said she loved anal which I was really looking forward to
Anyway we went upstair and she took off my pants and started to suck me, I slowly got hard and we started to have sex

I don't know what was going through my mind but I started to go limp
She then started to jerk me off, it was fantastic, her hands were magic but I just could not cum and our time was over

I'm not complaining that I did not cum as I really enjoyed my time with this lady
I have never tasted such a delicious pussy, its just now I wish I was more in control and told her to do the things I wanted

I guess it was just nerves and not knowing what you can say or do with an Escort
If any body has any tips about nerves or saying want you what it would really help
mine you it was all done with a condom which does not help and I was worrying about the time as it was just 1 hour which went bloody quick

I would love to see her again and prove I'm not completely useless, she really is a stunner

I asked if she ever had anyone else not cum - no was the answer

PLEASE HELP ME

[Freddo]

It was nerves or it could be medication if you are on any.
I have heard about lots of punters that are unable to come from various ladies I know.
You will get over it but sensation is not enough to keep you erect you need mental
stimulation as well, If this lady was not filling your mind with erotic thoughts then she
really was not doing it for you.
A lot of ladies will say that a man thinks through his dick a lot of men do but there are
some that need more than just a wet orffice to stick there cock into.

Maybe she was stunning but did she have a personality and did she show any signs that she might have been enjoying herself. Personally I get nothing from a lady who is not involved or
she is thinking about where her next booking is.

I have seen both sorts of ladies and the horny ones regardless of looks are so much more sexy than
the attractive ones with a detached mind

[Scotty_Hottie]

Very mean of her to say that you were the only one it had happened to. Even if it was true. But I doubt that it hadn't happened before, these things happen! But telling you that was really not helping anything.

[Trinity-Belle]

Very mean of her to say that you were the only one it had happened to. Even if it was true. But I doubt that it hadn't happened before, these things happen! But telling you that was really not helping anything.

I agree... although she probably didn't mean to be nasty... more likely she just answered without thinking?

And to be honest, if she has never experienced that before, then I can't imagine that she has been working very long? Either that or she usually sees young jack rabbits!

An hour does fly by, and really, don't worry about not cumming or going limp in the condom... these things happen. Lots and lots of guys react badly to the latex in condoms. You might try getting some none-latex ones and see how they work for you? One of the problems is, once you have "lost it" you start worrying about the fact that you haven't "performed" and that worry is the very thing which stops you from being able to get off... it's like a self fulfilling prophecy.

And the cum is not the be all and end all... more important is that you had a fantastic time - yay!

And it sounds like you did perfectly... just let it all happen. Personally I prefer that rather than when guys turn up with a tick list of things they want to do or a script of how the hour should go. Much nicer just to be natural. If guys try to get too prescriptive then I often chuck their little ideas out and just go off and do my own thing and try to blow them away in ways they had never even thought of!

But for sure, if there is something in particular you want to do, then ask - it is very unlikely you will be asking for anything we haven't done a million times before. We are there to give you a great experience and most girls enjoy knowing that their guy is enjoying himself. Just one thing though... if you want something at all out of the ordinary, then best to ask before you make a firm booking.

[panzerstudio]

Thanks for your comments guys they really help

Yes Trinity your so right once you start worrying about going limp you've lost the battle

I think it didn't help that she wanted the penetration to start from the off, I was still nervous and only semi

And yes condoms are bloody horrible I have only used them a few times in my relationships and every time I have no luck, they have no feeling what so ever

Next time I will try and be more assertive and try and get the courage up to tell her what I want
maybe to play with herself in front of me which should stimulate my mind as you said Freddo some of us need mental stimulation not just a wet orffice

Well now I've burst my Escort cherry and know what to expect, I'm hoping for a better round two

Thanks again

[britains porn stars]

Keep trying mate , i'am sure it's happened to load's other guys !!

[Freddo]

Penertration from the start that is a definate no no to me I like to explore caress and generally take my time enjoying a ladies body. There are very few men other than the very young that could stay hard for a hour.
In saying that I did recently but she was so hot she had me really excited but I only had intercourse for a very short amount of time that I was with her

I have also been with ladies that did nothing at all for me. With these ladies I do not know wether I would be able to maintain an erection with as I do not stay long

[Classy_Katy]

It sounds to me like she was rushing you and just trying to get it over and done with quickly.

[Freddo]

I have to agree with Katy here I think she was trying to get you to come quickly so she could get the next one in

[EliteAnnalise]

Yes, it does sound like she was trying to rush you. I've found most men prefer a sensual build up to the main event. A chance to explore each others bodies before diving right in!