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Adultworker who makes an appointment then lets you down
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(04-09-2012, 10:14)F3rm4t Wrote:

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(04-09-2012, 08:33)curvy crumpet Wrote:

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How can we expect clients to respect us if we do not give respect in return.

Herein lies the problem. The fact that we are having this discussion would suggest that I/Freddo wouldn't stand up a provider and you wouldn't stand up a client. That does not necessarily mean we are representative and I am not sure respect does exist across the board.

I would argue that leaving negative feedback for someone under those circumstances would just result in some made up feedback coming back the other way to say that I had changed the booking 12 times or something.

And therein lies the problem with the feedback system. I was royally messed around by an outcall girl twice (one cancellation 5 mins before meeting due to start, one complete no-show which was supposed to be an apology for the first cancellation) so I left negative feedback on non-confirmed bookings. She didn't notice for a few days but when she did, she marked the bookings as completed and left me two proper -1 feedbacks spouting a load of fictional getting even peevish nonsense. So that's my feedback trashed - thanks a bunch.

It taught me a salutary lesson - don't leave feedback.

Something I've discovered purely by chance - the opportunity to leave feedback expires at midnight exactly a month after the day of the booking request booking date / time. So those who choose to leave feedback be at your computer at 23:59 on that night. Then there's no chance of a spiteful response. Suffice to say I wouldn't stoop that low...
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(04-09-2012, 08:33)curvy crumpet Wrote:

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But if a lady accepts a booking and does not give you advance warning that a booking can not take place for whatever reason she should get negative feedback it is just manners and courtesy.

Unfortunately this only works when using the booking system and as with all internet rating systems the rating does not mean that it is the whole truth, it is just that the person who wrote it felt aggrieved.

(04-09-2012, 10:14)F3rm4t Wrote:

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I would argue that leaving negative feedback for someone under those circumstances would just result in some made up feedback coming back the other way to say that I had changed the booking 12 times or something.

Well spotted, this is something that punters would need to be aware of, the response could be bad for them if the lady so wished and they would then have no redress.

Botom line is that rating systems do work if enougth people use them, 10 negative reports from punters can not all be wrong....

Personally I do not use the rating system and have no time for it, hence very little feedback. I still prefer the old way of doing things, punters call me on the day and meet, this works but I still get a few that seem to have such complicated lives they can not work out if they can meet in the next 30 minutes or 3 hours.

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(02-10-2012, 11:25)wife4rent Wrote:

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Sex is like food, when you get hungry you eat, when did you last pre-order a pizza to be delivered 3 weeks in advance?

Ooh about two weeks ago, so next Wednesday is going to a great night in!!! Meat feast if I remember correctly :-)
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Quote:At a time when adultworkers report that there is a falling off of punters, this all seemed rather incomprehensible to me. Why would someone set up a website, provide plausible consistent photos - agree a time and date and then let you donw like that?


Honey, if this wee incident is 'incomprehensible to you', I'll wish you the best of luck in your future punting endeavoursTongue as this 'bread and butter fannying about' from the gents POV (the opposite being WG's 'bread and butter' situations dealing with timewasters and weirdos, for example) This in itself is REALLY NOT incomprehensible.


"Why would someone set up a appointment), provide plausible consistent photos - agree a time and date and then let you donw(sic) like that"


Quote:Anyone have any idea whats going on here?


NO: in terms of ascertaining the exact reason(s) for the (admittedly unorthodox) conduct of the WG you had the booking planned with. What with there being literally an infinite array of reason, circumstances, situations, events, that could offer an explaination for the resulting behavior you feel you have *suffered*, you will probable NEVER know why, what, how blah, blah, that your intended arranged booking ended (or, more accurately; didn't begin), unless you cross paths in the future.

YES: completely 'normal' (in this 'scene, rightly or wrongly), standard behaviour, that if you asked 100 punters, 99, or more likely 100 would immediately begin to reel ofd many a similar experience. This is the way things are in the escortinng world. Right? Not for me or the way I like to operate. Wrong? I try to rerain from deeming myself eligable to judge others, especially when uninformed, although proper procedure, manners and basic etiquette have clearly been side lined (but WE don't know why that might be,)



Quote:I'm not naming names...yet


ooooooooohhhh........you're making me nervousBig Grin. What exactly are you waiting for? lol



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(04-09-2012, 08:33)curvy crumpet Wrote:

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(04-09-2012, 06:35)Freddo Wrote:

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There are ladies out there that will give negative feedback if a person phones to cancel before the booking takes place.
I would not give a lady negative feedback if she gave me a reason for not showing up by phone or email. If she contacts you before or even after the booking thats okay.
I once sat in a hotel car park for a hour waiting for a lady who was sitting down the local A&E
I knew that because she texted me the following day. I did not give her any sort of feedback
you need to give people time to respond


I have only given negative feedback once and that was after I had found out that a client who had arranged an overnighter had prebooked 2 other escorts and then on the afternoon of the booking made his choice and given the rest of us the excuse that he had to attend the funeral of a colleagues son. Not realising that the girl he had seen had left him positive feedback for the evening.

But if a lady accepts a booking and does not give you advance warning that a booking can not take place for whatever reason she should get negative feedback it is just manners and courtesy.

How can we expect clients to respect us if we do not give respect in return.

I'm the same negative feedback is something I only leave if I think the person makes a habit of booking then cancelling, or has behaved out of turn in the lead up to the cancelled booking. Something like oodles of emails or text messages asking lots of one line questions, over what should be a simple booking.

Quite often I'll leave neutral and word it carefully so ladies can read between the lines and make their own minds up. If the cancellation and MO appears genuine I just simply delete the booking and move on.

My profile is quite clear on how to make & confirm a booking, and I always ask a person to let me know if they know they can't make it before this time. The number of people who say "Yes, yes I'd never let you down, never not let you know" who then disappear into the ether is quite high, to the point where I say "Please don't say those things, it only invites bad luck!".

Back to the point sure it will be annoying to turn up to find the lady not answering her phone. The only times in the last few years I've not been able to answer my phone was when I'd been victim of a robbery by a client the previous evening and the police wouldn't let me use my phone. One client didn't receive the quick, discrete as possibly could be text I'd managed to send and got as far as parking his car before realising something was amiss.

The one hour before idea is a good one, but sometimes it is possible to be still with your previous client (I like at least 1 hour ideally in between but sometimes I might overrun slightly, or the client may be late/need to move the appointment back a bit and with that leeway why not?), or be doing something else(I've had Drs, nail, hair appointments one hour before a booking). If someone wants to contact me to say they are setting off I usually clarify that it doesn't mean anything if they don't get an immediate response.

I've also had days when text messages have been delayed and not received them until 4-5 hours later, one weekend 48 hours afterwards. In those cases one guy assumed the appointment was off, and I sat there thinking he'd not bothered to confirm(phone signal was good) and thus wasn't attending. Not heard from him again.
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