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Adultworker who makes an appointment then lets you down
#21
Belfast for Escorts is the timewasters capital of the world. So maybe it was just someone being spiteful.
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#22
It happens a lot more than we all realise escorts let punters down all the time, Yes you should leave her time to respond but the fact that she has logged into AW means she could have sent you a quick email telling you why she was not around to answer her phone to your booking. At least you would know why then. If she has confirmed your booking request you should leave her negative feedback.
I have known ladies that will not answer the phone unless you are in the exact location they have told you to be in as they will then decide wether to answer the phone or not. They will give you an exact location so they can see you from there place of residence and then they will make a judgement call if you are not there they just write you off as an address collector.
There are loads of time waisters out there on both sides of the fence I have not meet a fair few.

My favourite non booking has to be where I drove to a car park a fair distance away only to be told when I phoned that she had earn't enough today and was packing up early and going out I was almost speechless it makes me smile now as its amusing it would have been really funny if it had happened to someone else.
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#23
K folks thanks for the advice. She didn't confirm so can do nout about it as you English guys would say. Guess she knew exactly what she was doing, but hey my money isn't good enough for her so maybe she's getting it too easy, for now!
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#24
I always ask a client to call me to discuss a booking and I never accept bookings via email or text. Once we've agreed on a time and date I will ask the client to call me to confirm on the day. I would never have zero phone contact prior to a meeting and then expect him to call when he's arrived! I think getting a feel for each other on the phone is important for both the Escort and Client!
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#25
(18-04-2012, 15:09)alapin Wrote: When I make an appointment, unless I fall under a bus, I turn up, so I am feeling a bit peeved.

I wouldn't feel peeved, just get over it and move on. In my experience it has only happened to me once, but I would suggest it comes with the territory.

I made an appointment on the phone that morning and we spoke again that evening an hour before the appointment.

I set off to meet her at a hotel about 30 mins away. Got there early, waited until the appointment time and tried to call to say I was there, get room number, etc.

First couple of times no answer, then her phone was off. I then got a text from a different number to say give her 10 minutes and she will call. I then wait 20 mins and try both numbers and both are off.

I waited for about an hour in total then gave up. I think I actually saw her leaving the hotel in that time.

The following day I got a text to say sorry she was ill, or something to that effect. It is possible that is true and it is possible I was just an inconvenience because something else came up. A simple explanation at the time, so that I didn't waste my time, would have been preferable.

I then figured out that the two numbers she had used belong to two different AW profiles, with very similar pictures, same tattoos, etc. I reported it to AW on the basis that I think it was one person using two profiles but they haven't done anything. Funnily enough one of the profiles has a 39 feedback.

Just goes to show that you win some and lose some, irrespective of how careful you are.



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#26
Honestly guys, request AW sets up a way for you guys to report these ladies as timewasters. It is giving us good ones a bad name.

They would be quick on the mark to label you a timewaster I think what is good for the goose will be good for the gander.
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(03-09-2012, 09:26)curvy crumpet Wrote: They would be quick on the mark to label you a timewaster I think what is good for the goose will be good for the gander.

I appreciate the sentiment, but I am not sure it can be that cut and dried.

Currently providers get frustrated by time wasters and no shows. Currently clients get frustrated by the same no shows, cancellations, etc.

Already some providers get their accounts suspended for minor indiscretions based on false accusations and it causes havoc for some ladies' businesses.

Surely it comes down to a personal judgement. You make a judgement about a client based on what they sound like, how they come across etc. In one circumstance, if they were to cancel on you, you might accept it was genuine and in another circumstance, you would come to a different conclusion and never speak to them again.

In the same way the lady I went to see might have been entirely genuine in standing me up. I don't think she was but that is just my read of the situation. If I were wrong but able to report her, that is just as unfair as leaving false feedback isn't it?

The trouble is that is almost any given situation one has absolutely no way of actually knowing whether the excuse, reason, or explanation is genuine or not. That works for both a provider and a client.

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#28
There are ladies out there that will give negative feedback if a person phones to cancel before the booking takes place.
I would not give a lady negative feedback if she gave me a reason for not showing up by phone or email. If she contacts you before or even after the booking thats okay.
I once sat in a hotel car park for a hour waiting for a lady who was sitting down the local A&E
I knew that because she texted me the following day. I did not give her any sort of feedback
you need to give people time to respond
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#29
(04-09-2012, 06:35)Freddo Wrote: There are ladies out there that will give negative feedback if a person phones to cancel before the booking takes place.
I would not give a lady negative feedback if she gave me a reason for not showing up by phone or email. If she contacts you before or even after the booking thats okay.
I once sat in a hotel car park for a hour waiting for a lady who was sitting down the local A&E
I knew that because she texted me the following day. I did not give her any sort of feedback
you need to give people time to respond


I have only given negative feedback once and that was after I had found out that a client who had arranged an overnighter had prebooked 2 other escorts and then on the afternoon of the booking made his choice and given the rest of us the excuse that he had to attend the funeral of a colleagues son. Not realising that the girl he had seen had left him positive feedback for the evening.

But if a lady accepts a booking and does not give you advance warning that a booking can not take place for whatever reason she should get negative feedback it is just manners and courtesy.

How can we expect clients to respect us if we do not give respect in return.
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#30
(04-09-2012, 08:33)curvy crumpet Wrote: How can we expect clients to respect us if we do not give respect in return.

Herein lies the problem. The fact that we are having this discussion would suggest that I/Freddo wouldn't stand up a provider and you wouldn't stand up a client. That does not necessarily mean we are representative and I am not sure respect does exist across the board.

I would argue that leaving negative feedback for someone under those circumstances would just result in some made up feedback coming back the other way to say that I had changed the booking 12 times or something.
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