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How many people see the same person lots of time.
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I just wonder how many escorts see the same client lots of times or should I say how many people see the same escort girl lots of times? Do you like seeing the same perosn again and again or do you like to see lots of different people?
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#2
Dude - I get the feeling there's something really bothering you at the moment, you're posting a lot about pretty much the same subject.

I think the best thing is, keep a good mix of seeing different girls. I got very, very hung up on one last year and it's still fucking me up.
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#3
Some guys like the same girl others prefer to mix it up with others.

I have many regulars but only work part time. I have a feeling that a few of them cheat on me and see other girls. I never ask them and they do not kiss and tell, well most don't, some do.

Not sure why but I often compare punting with eating out. I have my favourite places to go and eat and when I am there I have my favourite items on the menu. It seems boring to have the same thing at the same place and I do try and change but it is hard if they cook it so well.

On the other hand, one of my favourite dishes is Lasagne and very few places do it well. So when you see it on the menu you may really fancy it, sometimes it is good but often comes out bubbling from spending to long in the micro-wave. then it is a real disapointment.

It can be very frustrating! I guess that is the same with punting.

Sarah x x x
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(26-02-2012, 15:39)pocketcalculator Wrote: Dude - I get the feeling there's something really bothering you at the moment, you're posting a lot about pretty much the same subject.

I think the best thing is, keep a good mix of seeing different girls. I got very, very hung up on one last year and it's still fucking me up.

hahaha i think rodtheman is inlove.
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(26-02-2012, 12:19)rodtheman37 Wrote: I just wonder how many escorts see the same client lots of times or should I say how many people see the same escort girl lots of times? Do you like seeing the same perosn again and again or do you like to see lots of different people?

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I LOVE SAME GUYS BUT SOMETIMES NEW 1S MORE OF A BUZZ
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#7
I used to see the same ladies all the time, sometimes it gets very friendly and other times they move on and leave you trying to find a lady to take her place.

You need to try new ladies just in case your favourite moves on. You can always go back to your favourite but keep your options open.

Even if you have a favourite the chances are you are not her favourite just one of many.

Always remember you are paying the lady if she does a good job you will return it depends on what she wants,to how good of a job she does
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#8
Freddo speaks the truth Rod. Past that, half of my time over the years has easily been spent seeing a few regular ladies and they've been worth their weight in gold, I've called some friends, part of the fun as a punter is that variety is endless. What you can't do is lose sight of what the relationship is based on and defined by, I don't need to spell that out for you.

You've asked near enough the same question three times now, fella. The board has endless experience on both sides of the business. Phrasing the question differently isn't going to get you the answer you are fishing for. Afraid to say so, but the horse is dead, step away from the carcass. Even though there are members who have relationships that started through escort work, but they are not jumping in telling you to rush ahead.

Harsher still, seeking relationship from an adult services board, not the smartest idea I can think of and if you were stong enough in your own mind about it, you wouldn't need to do it
Often heard from some ladies, how the mental side of this business can be a real mind-fuck, it's clearly the same for some blokes, many making up the ranks of creepy stalkers. You don't need to go there.

A piece of information I can give you, that I doubt many will disagree with; if you intend to keep punting, you should see more than one person and specifically stop seeing whoever you are hung up on. Better still, stop for a while, take a step back and reassess if you get more positives than negatives out of it. If you don't, again, it doesn't need spelling out.

Best of luck fella.
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#9
In my expereince of dabbling, i would go for variety.
I set out with the intention of finding a regular girl who would be able to satisfy my desires and understand them and who could develop with them in the ways that my vanilla mrs wont/cant/dont. I am still looking. I achieved my goal twice but the 1st girl 'retired' and i had to start again. I used to visit this girl about every 3 weeks. Perfect. she knew just which buttons to press and she made me feel special and it felt like i was meeting a mate. excellent. 2nd girl became too familiar. sex was superb but she began telling me about her kids, showing me pictures and asking for my opinion on domestic things like decorating/diy/insurance. I had to stop seeing her because our relationship was turning into something more than regular sex. During my searches, I have had memorable expereinces and mostly good and met some lovely people on the way. i have had pleasure with different types of women (size, ethnicity, age, hair colour, tattooed & piercings) and few regrets. I continue to search and advocate trying different ladies because if and it is a big if, you do find your holy grail, it will always be fragile. She could reitire change move at anytime. Just look at the churn on AW a lot of ladies open and then close accounts with not much of a window. cruise and play and try like you would at a buffet and be happy dont just hog your favourites.
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(28-02-2012, 12:46)simo22 Wrote: Just look at the churn on AW a lot of ladies open and then close accounts with not much of a window

Or they get kicked off for being fakes...

Sarah x x x
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