I wonder why?

[English Kate]

This is the 'I wonder why' thread.

If you have ever read anything, observed anything or generally thought to yourself... I wonder why? Then add it to this thread.

I think in the Escorting profession this question comes up a lot. Such as, I wonder why some men bother to make fake bookings?

I wonder why some men say they have a large c*** when they evidently don't have one.

My 'I wonder why' today is...

I wonder why men think they can discuss how much they fancy another Escort or how much of a good time they had with a different Escort when they are arranging to book you or have literally just had a booking with you. Do they not realise that we are still women and have ego's, feelings and hurt?

Thankfully it doesn't happen to me often, but on several occassions I have had to tell a client that if they continue a certain conversation then I will have to cancel the booking, because I need to feel special while I'm with him and can't do that when I am comparing myself to his last or next conquest.

So... boys, if you have ever done this. Why? What makes you treat an Escort any differently to your OH when it comes to emotions? Do you really think we are dead from the head up?

[abcdef]

with me the booking just ends & they are more or less told to get to fuck

[monty69]

Wouldnt dream of discussing the merits of one escort over another or make any other comparisons whilst on a meet. Apart from the obvious risk of upsetting the escort you are meeting, it is bloody bad manners as well.

Mind youy, saying that, I would counter that by saying - I wonder why some escorts bitch about other escorts when you meet them? I have had that a couple of times and have steered the conversation away. I would hardly end the meet as I had already paid!

[Freddo]

I never discuss one escort with another it is bad manners for a start

I wonder why some ladies are escorts at all as they never seem to be available
I wonder why time waisters exsist
I wonder why people get pleasure from putting fake profiles up

[English Kate]

Wouldnt dream of discussing the merits of one escort over another or make any other comparisons whilst on a meet. Apart from the obvious risk of upsetting the escort you are meeting, it is bloody bad manners as well.

Mind youy, saying that, I would counter that by saying - I wonder why some escorts bitch about other escorts when you meet them? I have had that a couple of times and have steered the conversation away. I would hardly end the meet as I had already paid!

That's not what I mean Monty. They don't make the comparison. Imagine this, you've just had a blow job given you by the Escort you are actually with, she comes up for air and a cuddle and as you are at that point, you start discussing the Escort you were with before and let's say talking about how amazing her breasts are. You have said nothing against the breasts of the lady you are with, but by doing this you are likely giving her a complex and making her feel second best or inferior.

Or a worse scenario. You cum up from giving him a bj and he tells you about the Escort he has booked to see next month who has FRs saying she gives the best blow jobs ever and you can't wait!

Get what I'm saying? You might know that the Escort you are with is friends with another one you have seen and go on about how lovely the other one is. Yes they are friends, but by doing this you are undermining the confidence of the one you are with and making her feel rubbish. Why do men think it is ok to do this?

We may not be in a relationship, or likely to meet again, but surely you can focus on the woman you are with for the half hour or so you have booked her for and not be so rude to discuss other women.

The other thing that makes me think, 'I wonder why...?' Is why do some men go on about their wives all the time during a booking? Why bother to book an Escort if you're just going to go on and on about your wife? Yes you might feel a bit guilty and need to get it off your chest, but is it fair to pass that guilt on to the Escort? She didn't force you to book her, you chose to.

[abcdef]

That's not what I mean Monty. They don't make the comparison. Imagine this, you've just had a blow job given you by the Escort you are actually with, she comes up for air and a cuddle and as you are at that point, you start discussing the Escort you were with before and let's say talking about how amazing her breasts are. You have said nothing against the breasts of the lady you are with, but by doing this you are likely giving her a complex and making her feel second best or inferior.

Or a worse scenario. You cum up from giving him a bj and he tells you about the Escort he has booked to see next month who has FRs saying she gives the best blow jobs ever and you can't wait!

Get what I'm saying? You might know that the Escort you are with is friends with another one you have seen and go on about how lovely the other one is. Yes they are friends, but by doing this you are undermining the confidence of the one you are with and making her feel rubbish. Why do men think it is ok to do this?

We may not be in a relationship, or likely to meet again, but surely you can focus on the woman you are with for the half hour or so you have booked her for and not be so rude to discuss other women.

The other thing that makes me think, 'I wonder why...?' Is why do some men go on about their wives all the time during a booking? Why bother to book an Escort if you're just going to go on and on about your wife? Yes you might feel a bit guilty and need to get it off your chest, but is it fair to pass that guilt on to the Escort? She didn't force you to book her, you chose to.

or if u have a completely different body shape & the client gushes on at how perfect your friend is, my personality changes in a split second at that & i get disgusted at myself for letting him even touch me

[English Kate]

That's not what I mean Monty. They don't make the comparison. Imagine this, you've just had a blow job given you by the Escort you are actually with, she comes up for air and a cuddle and as you are at that point, you start discussing the Escort you were with before and let's say talking about how amazing her breasts are. You have said nothing against the breasts of the lady you are with, but by doing this you are likely giving her a complex and making her feel second best or inferior.

Or a worse scenario. You cum up from giving him a bj and he tells you about the Escort he has booked to see next month who has FRs saying she gives the best blow jobs ever and you can't wait!

Get what I'm saying? You might know that the Escort you are with is friends with another one you have seen and go on about how lovely the other one is. Yes they are friends, but by doing this you are undermining the confidence of the one you are with and making her feel rubbish. Why do men think it is ok to do this?

We may not be in a relationship, or likely to meet again, but surely you can focus on the woman you are with for the half hour or so you have booked her for and not be so rude to discuss other women.

The other thing that makes me think, 'I wonder why...?' Is why do some men go on about their wives all the time during a booking? Why bother to book an Escort if you're just going to go on and on about your wife? Yes you might feel a bit guilty and need to get it off your chest, but is it fair to pass that guilt on to the Escort? She didn't force you to book her, you chose to.

or if u have a completely different body shape & the client gushes on at how perfect your friend is, my personality changes in a split second at that & i get disgusted at myself for letting him even touch me

Exactly my point Lolo. It makes you wonder what the hell they booked you for in the first place if you are not their type. Just don't come to me if that is the case, as there are plenty of guys out there that do like the shape I am, so why waste my time if you're just 'making do'. It makes me so angry!

[Freddo]

I would love to make do if you ladies are what making do means. Some blokes must get a weird sense of enjoyment from talking about other ladies while they are with them.
I could not imagine saying some of the things blokes have said to you Kate

[English Kate]

I would love to make do if you ladies are what making do means. Some blokes must get a weird sense of enjoyment from talking about other ladies while they are with them.
I could not imagine saying some of the things blokes have said to you Kate

Those are not actual scenarios for me Freddo. Thankfully I'm not the kind of person to let it happen. As soon as I hear anything that I find annying I will ask the person to stop, but I have had to do it quite a few times and if anyone does it before we meet, then I tell them that I am not right for them. I can't meet someone if I don't feel sexy, it just strips me of my sexappeal and that's not really a good thing in this job.

Thanks for understanding though Freddo and it's nice to know you wouldn't do it if face to face.

[monty69]

Ok Kate, I may have missed exactly what you meant - and I agree. I wouldnt ever discuss another escort on a meet full stop. As for comparing body types, that is a big no no as well.

When I meet a lady, I am meeting her because I want to meet her, not just because she is available. Most of my meets are booked within 24 hours of actually meeting but that doesnt mean I havent done my research beforehand.

Mind you, my last meet was planned over a period of weeks beforehand and boy the expectation was only surpassed by the meeting itself. If I havent said it already, Lolo you were well worth the wait!