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#1
Greetings all

I am a new user of the AW site as a seeker of services and i am confused.com. I have been playing with it for a few weeks now and i think i have it all set up correctly but the issue is i am not having any luck.

I have emailed a few members via the site, followed the rules, been polite and everything but i appear to be getting completely ignored. Now i don't want this to sound desperate or pathetic in a "why won't you love me" kind of way, I am just curious as to why no-one is replying. Now i accept that a lot of escorts are part time, they have lives outside of work and its wrong to badger them so on and so forth, but i personally think its polite professional courtesy to at least respond when someone asks you a question. It's gotten to the point were i believe i am doing something wrong.

This is not a rant or hateful venting, it is an ignorant user trying to understand what i am doing wrong. To that end, can anyone advise if i am doing anything wrong and if not, how i can get noticed/accepted by the members i am speaking to?
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#2
(02-08-2021, 18:29)MadMan530 Wrote: Greetings all

I am a new user of the AW site as a seeker of services and i am confused.com. I have been playing with it for a few weeks now and i think i have it all set up correctly but the issue is i am not having any luck.

I have emailed a few members via the site, followed the rules, been polite and everything but i appear to be getting completely ignored. Now i don't want this to sound desperate or pathetic in a "why won't you love me" kind of way, I am just curious as to why no-one is replying. Now i accept that a lot of escorts are part time, they have lives outside of work and its wrong to badger them so on and so forth, but i personally think its polite professional courtesy to at least respond when someone asks you a question. It's gotten to the point were i believe i am doing something wrong.

This is not a rant or hateful venting, it is an ignorant user trying to understand what i am doing wrong. To that end, can anyone advise if i am doing anything wrong and if not, how i can get noticed/accepted by the members i am speaking to?
What are you writing, what does the AW message you are sending say?

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#3
Hi, are the messages being opened?

On AW its a performers market so no replies is a normal thing. You can do things to better appeal to the person, some of them have on their profile things like "when messaging me make sure to write "cherry" in the title so I know you have read my profile" etc
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#4
Main thing i am writing to them about is a few questions on the services they provide that is not on their profile. I have also emailed members to request a session as their profile requested that i do this, it was the only way i could communicate with them in this case as they did not include a text number. I keep it polite, professional and respectful so i don't think i am offending anyone.

The emails are being read as well as they are all marked as received.

Toying with the idea of just making the booking via the booking system on the site. I don't really want to resort to that just yet as A) i find it good manners to speak with them first before making the booking and B) i get the impression looking over the profiles that most escorts don't use the booking system anyway.

I'm fine with them not accepting but if no-one tells me why, i can't improve.
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#5
Many won't accept a booking form without previous contact, and will consider it rude.

Could you provide a rough format for me to see, an example of what you are writing from greeting to end please?

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(03-08-2021, 18:27)Strawberryblonde Wrote: Many won't accept a booking form without previous contact, and will consider it rude.

Could you provide a rough format for me to see, an example of what you are writing from greeting to end please?

OK, rough out line is below. names and dates omitted but you can see the lay out at least. This is a booking request that was sent via email as requested on the escorts profile.

" Hi name

I would like to discuss a booking with you if i can. Long story short i'm new here and looking for a more casual starter experience. I have been checking various profiles on here and yours comes across as very inviting to the new comers

i am looking to book a session sometime next week if possible. That's between the the -th and -th. I am flexible on the date but would prefer a PM time, need to factor in the travel time. It would be an incall as well as i am unable to accommodate myself

If you would like to contact me you can email me back or text my number, you can find it on my profile. If you can't see it i am happy to forward it on. Would prefer text over call as its more discrete.

Hope to hear from you

Take care"

Thanks for your help on this by the way
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#7
I would shorten it to;

Dear Service Provider Name

I would like to book an x hour incall appointment anytime between XPM and XPM on these dates.

[Here you could acknowledge any particular terms & conditions stipulated on her profile re making a booking]

Best regards
Madman530

Just to explain your original message is too long, to waffly and she is not going to faff around going looking for your number. SPs in general want to know time, date, location, duration, session content and that you acknowledge any specific requests ie you've read she'll need whatever confirmation procedure stipulated (if there is one).

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#8
yeah, email waffling a bad habit of mine. Short, concise and to the point makes a lot of sense. Nice to know i am following the right process at least so i will keep trying Smile

Great advice anyway, thanks for the help
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