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Someone is coming tonight who wants me to dominate him sexually.

I thought about it and have decided to do it - never done it before.

He isn't into pain, just wants to be controlled.

I thought I'd make him shower - or at least wash his cock - if he is already clean.
Stand in front of the mirror spread eagled so I can caress different parts of his body at random.
He fancies being tied up, so I thought I'd do that and tease him with a feather.

He wanted a strap-on but I don't have one - so thought I'd do prostate massage.

Does anyone have any more ideas for me???
Axx
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#2
If you dont have a strap in you can still use toys. My strap ons huge and most chicken out when the times comes ha ha

The easiest easiest way to dominate someone sexually is good old tie and tease just turn it up a notch. Blindfold him. Maybe tie his cock up and tease it etc Tie him to a chair that you can walk around him (while his blindfolded) maybe tie him face down legs and hands behind back when you go for the..back entrance play Angel
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#3
Oh good luck ann I am crap at anything like that
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#4
DarkStranger, you should be able to help out with this thread for future reference!!!

My guy has just chickened out! Thanks for the ideas Jem. They sparked off a few of my own!
I have a room next to my 'boudoir' which is fairly empty, wooden floorboards but with a table and chairs! I was going to remove the rug in there, blindfold him and lead him in there - so he didn't know where he was. Then tie him to the chair in there, as there is loads of room to walk around, stand close or far away and play control games!!
It's a shame, I'm getting quite into the idea now!
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#5
do u want it moved
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#6
Yes, I was just thinking that - some of the sub boys could contribute!
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#7
I have never been on the recieving end of a dominant lady
i have dominated but never with a escort
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#8
Hi SassyAnn. Too bad that your potential sub chickened out at last minute. It sounds like you were getting excited at the idea of domming him. Well, if you get any more potential femdom sessions then I would be more than happy to give you some ideas. I quite often play sub, and have had lots of things done to me. So am just full of ideas Smile
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#9
Give us some pointers LT. I know everyone is different and will respond differently to different ways of domination.
What types of domination do you like? What have you found particularly moving or arousing? Have your boundaries stretched over time and how did the Dommes help you do that? How do you choose your Dommes?
Plus any games they play with your mind etc, would be really interesting! It's a whole new world to me.

He says he definitely wants to see me! We'll see. I did stress to him, that it was about me helping him to fulfil his fantasies and desires - rather than for me to get a cheap thrill. So we'll have a talk some time and I'll see if I can help him.
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#10
Pointers you ask? Okay. I have played sub for several years, so have sampled most bdsm practices. I myself like to have my boundaries pushed each time I have a new session, and have got to the point where it is the extreme end of the scale. I can take a lot of pain, and if I'm honest I enjoy and encourage the pain. So I like nothing more than a harsh caning or whipping, plus perhaps a set of pliers on my nipples, pegs on my meat and two veg, to be removed by my mistress whipping them off of course. Hope this doesn't shock you LOL. I also like to engage in fear and danger play, such as breath control and suffocation. But this is a relationship I have built with my mistress over several years; I have just one mistress. Not going to name her, but she does frequent the forum from time to time. She knows my kinks, and my boundaries etc. For you, with it being the guy's first session, you should start small, for both his sake, and yours, until he work out his boundaries and limits, and what he responds well to. I would recommend tie and tease to begin with, and then some light pain play (so, pegs on nipples perhaps, instead of a boot to his cock LOL). Mind control is always good, as some slaves are more into the psychological aspect than the pain part. So, whilst tied up, you could get his mobile phone, and threaten to call his friends or family, unless he does exactly what you say. This will get him quivering like a little worm (but believe me, secretly he will be loving it). And other non-pain play for a first session could include humiliation; you could splosh him with lots of messy food items, or dress him up like a girlie, or humiliate him in public. And watersports too, as this is a big turn on for some slaves. Do you own a strap-on, as one way to really humiliate him would be to use a strap-on on him. Just be sure to use plenty of lube if his first time! So, lots of things to think over. Let me know if you want any more info on a specific activity. And if the session does happen then be sure to let us know how it goes (although you should keep your slave's identity a secret of course).

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