UKPunting Ban

[Rambo was a pussy!]

No offence to users of Adult Work, but that site has done little for me over the years. It is also somewhat worrying that you are "sharing" the women you book with those sad users on UKPunting as well.

The women on there are extremely cold and pretentious. It makes no real difference where you meet them, though. They're really not nice people and many of them are probably hard drug users. By the time you actually meet a really woman like woman on there, it's unlikely you'll get a quick follow-up as they move around a lot. Scores of guys would back me up on this. I'm surprised people don't end up scarred for life after encountering some of these rough diamonds. Half of them lie about their services and shit, which is bad enough. Like, you may text a girl asking if she'll do something. Within seconds, you get speedy "yes" replies, only when you're there with her, it's the polar opposite. But I wouldn't be surprised if they are automated replies. My real gripe is that they are kind of nasty and heartless, very frequently. These women never really act like they are into you at all, not even on a basic human level. That's the whole point of receiving a girlfriend experience. A lot of them either look aggressive, or depressed.

I mean, some women may be able to fake it well with a guy, but I've met some exceptionally impolite broads on there. One who was clearly not interested in me whatsoever and who didn't look like she wanted to be doing this job, blasted me for asking if Estonia was near Russia. I mean, there was absolutely no malice behind what I asked her that day. It was just meant to be a bit of innocent small talk, but I should have just taking the hint. Really, I don't like their attitude. I'd actually seen that person once or twice before that, but not for a while. She put on weight and was staying down by Ocean Terminal in Edinburgh. She used to be in Dalry. I'm actually never all that aroused when I'm with these women either, and until recently, I didn't even have my own residence, so I had to travel and I'm agoraphobic to a degree.

I went to see a dominatrix in a flat once, who is Romanian. I won't state what we did there as that's too personal, but she was the rudest damn woman I'd ever seen in my life. Now I know that many of these mistresses are very icy with their personality, but she was just a vile human being. My £150 (which consists of benefits) went straight down the chute. She asked me to buy her fags as well, which I couldn't even do in some shops, as they were right away asking me for ID and although I was 30 at the time, I don't carry a Citizen Card or anything that displays my age. To top it off, I'm certain she took a photo of me as I entered her shower. I vaguely heard a clicking noise, and she was holding the phone just as I entered the shower, so she probably was attempting a blackmail insurance policy if I reacted to how she ended up treating me. Under no circumstances should any "professional escort" or whatever be violating someone's rights like that. Since I likely wouldn't want to share my experience with anyone, I think this was like a semi-robbery, which is why she took my picture (that's as bad as revenge porn). I left her belated feedback last year, then she denied ever being in Edinburgh. I therefore chalked it up to an awful experience.

I cannot remember if the shower was in the bedroom. It may have been a posh joint type flat by the sea at Newhaven where the shower is just a small cubicle, which is situated against a wall in the bedroom. I cannot remember, as this was way back in the autumn of 2016. She then had a half-hearted "chat" with me (perhaps realizing she had behaved like a cow) and couldn't really understand my accent. It also didn't help that she had the worst personality I'd ever encountered and likely wanted me to get lost once I squandered my money. It's not necessarily put me off from seeing escorts or mistresses again, but that was just sad. Mistress Von Teese is her name and she looks attractive, but she's a bitch.

Another time, I met a ladyboy and she was my first ladyboy experience ever, and we seemed to gel. That was in 2015 in March that year. When I attempted to book her a few years later, she said on her page she was an actress now, so I sent a very friendly message and got treated like trash immediately thereafter, like she had snorted all the cocaine in Cuba. I did find her to be very uneven before that occurred. To be honest, it wasn't even actually her in most of the photos in her public gallery anyway. Only her recent ones where she is posing in front of a mirror are real, but she only does massage services now. I was subjected to tons of nasty messages for no apparent reason, only than I sent a message she didn't want. She even called my number and acted highly erratic, then kept on sending me text messages calling me childish names, to the point where I could have called the cops. But honestly - I couldn't even believe it was the same person from a long time ago. TS Rosie is her name. She was on Escort Scotland a long time ago, with lovely (but totally fake) pictures. It's actually a shame that hardly any super lovely looking Thai ladyboys visit Edinburgh.

Well, that's my two cents on what Adult Work has become.

[Ms Dee]

No offence to users of Adult Work, but that site has done little for me over the years.  It is also somewhat worrying that you are "sharing" the women you book with those sad users on UKPunting as well.

The women on there are extremely cold and pretentious. It makes no real difference where you meet them, though. They're really not nice people and many of them are probably hard drug users. By the time you actually meet a really woman like woman on there, it's unlikely you'll get a quick follow-up as they move around a lot. Scores of guys would back me up on this. I'm surprised people don't end up scarred for life after encountering some of these rough diamonds. Half of them lie about their services and shit, which is bad enough. Like, you may text a girl asking if she'll do something. Within seconds, you get speedy "yes" replies, only when you're there with her, it's the polar opposite. But I wouldn't be surprised if they are automated replies. My real gripe is that they are kind of nasty and heartless, very frequently. These women never really act like they are into you at all, not even on a basic human level. That's the whole point of receiving a girlfriend experience. A lot of them either look aggressive, or depressed.

I mean, some women may be able to fake it well with a guy, but I've met some exceptionally impolite broads on there. One who was clearly not interested in me whatsoever and who didn't look like she wanted to be doing this job, blasted me for asking if Estonia was near Russia. I mean, there was absolutely no malice behind what I asked her that day. It was just meant to be a bit of innocent small talk, but I should have just taking the hint. Really, I don't like their attitude. I'd actually seen that person once or twice before that, but not for a while. She put on weight and was staying down by Ocean Terminal in Edinburgh. She used to be in Dalry. I'm actually never all that aroused when I'm with these women either, and until recently, I didn't even have my own residence, so I had to travel and I'm agoraphobic to a degree.

I went to see a dominatrix in a flat once, who is Romanian. I won't state what we did there as that's too personal, but she was the rudest damn woman I'd ever seen in my life. Now I know that many of these mistresses are very icy with their personality, but she was just a vile human being. My £150 (which consists of benefits) went straight down the chute. She asked me to buy her fags as well, which I couldn't even do in some shops, as they were right away asking me for ID and although I was 30 at the time, I don't carry a Citizen Card or anything that displays my age. To top it off, I'm certain she took a photo of me as I entered her shower. I vaguely heard a clicking noise, and she was holding the phone just as I entered the shower, so she probably was attempting a blackmail insurance policy if I reacted to how she ended up treating me. Under no circumstances should any "professional escort" or whatever be violating someone's rights like that. Since I likely wouldn't want to share my experience with anyone, I think this was like a semi-robbery, which is why she took my picture (that's as bad as revenge porn). I left her belated feedback last year, then she denied ever being in Edinburgh. I therefore chalked it up to an awful experience.

I cannot remember if the shower was in the bedroom. It may have been a posh joint type flat by the sea at Newhaven where the shower is just a small cubicle, which is situated against a wall in the bedroom. I cannot remember, as this was way back in the autumn of 2016. She then had a half-hearted "chat" with me (perhaps realizing she had behaved like a cow) and couldn't really understand my accent. It also didn't help that she had the worst personality I'd ever encountered and likely wanted me to get lost once I squandered my money. It's not necessarily put me off from seeing escorts or mistresses again, but that was just sad. Mistress Von Teese is her name and she looks attractive, but she's a bitch.

Another time, I met a ladyboy and she was my first ladyboy experience ever, and we seemed to gel. That was in 2015 in March that year. When I attempted to book her a few years later, she said on her page she was an actress now, so I sent a very friendly message and got treated like trash immediately thereafter, like she had snorted all the cocaine in Cuba. I did find her to be very uneven before that occurred. To be honest, it wasn't even actually her in most of the photos in her public gallery anyway. Only her recent ones where she is posing in front of a mirror are real, but she only does massage services now. I was subjected to tons of nasty messages for no apparent reason, only than I sent a message she didn't want. She even called my number and acted highly erratic, then kept on sending me text messages calling me childish names, to the point where I could have called the cops. But honestly - I couldn't even believe it was the same person from a long time ago. TS Rosie is her name. She was on Escort Scotland a long time ago, with lovely (but totally fake) pictures. It's actually a shame that hardly any super lovely looking Thai ladyboys visit Edinburgh.

Well, that's my two cents on what Adult Work has become.

Just a thought, but have you ever considered that it might just be your choices and no offence but you do not exactly come across as a model client.  Unfortunately us Hoors can be turned off by a man's demeanor, attitude, personal hygiene and just simply how they communicate with us.

[BeautifulBADGirl]

I went to see a dominatrix in a flat once, who is Romanian. I won't state what we did there as that's too personal, but she was the rudest damn woman I'd ever seen in my life. Now I know that many of these mistresses are very icy with their personality, but she was just a vile human being. My £150 (which consists of benefits) went straight down the chute.

The DSS would be very interested in this post!

[Rambo was a pussy!]

Sorry. I was going to write a longer post, yet the text suddenly disappeared by accident. I guess I fucked it up with my shitty D-pad thing on my laptop when I was highlighting all the text, and I cannot undo it (sigh). The point is, one's privacy matters to them and people that risk violating their privacy for whatever purpose, well they deserve no custom from any person, because customers paying for whatever service usually do this anonymously and for a good reason. 

Ms. Dee, I see that you obscure your pictures; I just want to ask: Do you see why that's not a professional way to conduct services looking at it from my point of view? 

You don't have to agree with anything I say.

[Ms Dee]

Sorry. I was going to write a longer post, yet the text suddenly disappeared by accident. I guess I fucked it up with my shitty D-pad thing on my laptop when I was highlighting all the text, and I cannot undo it (sigh). The point is, one's privacy matters to them and people that risk violating their privacy for whatever purpose, well they deserve no custom from any person, because customers paying for whatever service usually do this anonymously and for a good reason. 

Ms. Dee, I see that you obscure your pictures; I just want to ask: Do you see why that's not a professional way to conduct services looking at it from my point of view? 

You don't have to agree with anything I say.

Dear Dear Rambo, I obscure my photo's as I enjoy my anonymity and I value my privacy but I can assure you my clients are never disappointed in who they meet.

PS.  my tits are the main attraction not my face.

[Rambo was a pussy!]

Who is worse? The trolls at UKPunting, or the disgraces to society who said Sylvester Stallone had died? 

Sly can never die.

[annabelle]

Who is worse? The trolls at UKPunting, or the disgraces to society who said Sylvester Stallone had died? 

Sly can never die.

Ha ha ha, I used to be mesmerised by Sly as a child........ well, not anymore.

Anyway, it is such a pity you had such bad experiences with girls.  I wonder if this world is for you: maybe in 20 years you will look back and laugh.  In the past, if I realised I was between the wrong people I always 'cut the evil from the root'.  Nowadays I just keep my distance as I try to be positive.  There are lots of bad people around and rather than be angry and be defined by them, my philosophy is to run away from people who most surely will never change as probably they live themselves in very nasty environments and only do what is in their nature.  After all, our lives are so short.  I sincerely wish you all the best.

[Rambo was a pussy!]

Well, it would be an exaggeration to say all my punts were bad, because I don't think anyone gets that unlucky. I guess I just get too stressed out. Stress is definitely going to fuck up your libido. My perception of women hasn't changed much, although I did have a girlfriend once who was just a user and I've dated nobody else. So of course, that caused me to ruminate over her for years.

We met during 2005 when I was doing a course and I had to do a work placement as part of that course. So I ended up in a charity shop she happened to be in. Her friends just humiliated me when I went to see her. Eventually, I was just fed up of this shit, because it was always the same song and dance. What relationship was this? Although I felt cheated as well. I'm in Edinburgh, by the way.

After I spent several years trying to find her (I was desperate and lonely), she came back into my life after God only knows how long. She repeatedly scammed me thereafter. She was acting so-so at times, but mostly, I was mistreated in many ways by her, as well as her family members. Keeping in mind that I had not seen her in years. She had me getting her an iPod from Argos once and then she broke it when I was paying it up on credit, although she insists it wasn't her fault. The thing wasn't covered for damages either. At the time, I lived in supported accommodation due to having autism and the staff were aware of what she was doing to me, although they weren't exactly trustworthy people either, but I'll come to that bit soon. 

Despite the way my ex behaved, I was nice enough to pay to have the iPod repaired in a shop, but she was only okay around me when it pleased her. To get that iPod in such a state, I think she had jammed the charger in the wrong way round, which fucked up the dock at the bottom of the iPod. She claimed to have learning difficulties, but she was making out I was just a friend and then seeing this other guy she knows from when I wasn't in her life. Then a year after I got her that iPod, she and I were supposed to jointly pay up a PlayStation 3 from the same Argos store, because she was seemingly all nice again and we were hanging out as mates. However, I signed the paperwork since she wasn't registered with that shop. Although just months before that, she threatened me with the pigs and then invited me up to her house in the same conversation, just after I said my benefits got reinstated. Yes, I think you know what she is.

Unfortunately, she took the PS3 out of the box and went away home with it as quick as lightning. She returned my bag without the games console, but I didn't see her for well over a year after that, due to her same old crap. She claims she doesn't know what happened to the PS3 either. She wanted me to meet her somewhere after we met up just once that year, but I know she had a habit of taking the piss and I was reluctant to do as she asked, as it looked to be more of the same. Like, she would expect me to get on a bus and meet her somewhere she selected, then she'd not even be there when I arrived. So I went to Wester Hailes and she wasn't there. Since she didn't give me her mobile number and kept refusing to do so, I had to wait until I got back home to communicate with her and I told her on Facebook that I'd gone to see her. Facebook was the only way we were communicating at the time. I'm not sure if my phone even had Internet access. Then she blocked me. 

Over a year later, I happened to be out in the early hours and I randomly seen her at Lothian Road, because she had been at that guy's house and I just happened to be on the other side of the road. She instantly asked me for cash and didn't even want to take the time to have a real chat with me. I mean, is that disrespectful or is that disrespectful? Anyway, that's the last time I ever seen her sorry excuse of an ass, as far as I'm aware. All she did after that was block me tons of times on Facebook when I left a post on her wall, or sent a friend request. Her father died in late 2016 (I think). I saw her posting tributes to him on Facebook. But seriously, would you want a partner or even a friend like her? 

I'm also a member of several acting groups on Facebook, as I'd like to be in more films as an extra. I've only been in several films in recent years, two of which are feature length, but they are just independent productions. I'm certain that some people have been slandering me on the Internet, so that I get the cold shoulder, or worse yet. Even blocked and blacklisted by other people I don't know, but perhaps they do. It's like I'm getting discredited by some spiteful person I can be suspicious of, but I have no proof. Although I am not being paranoid, as I know it happened in the past. It's hard as it is for me to meet strangers, because I have anxiety and I'm not receiving any support just now. I've got this useless social worker, which doesn't help. He claims it's a total waste of their budget to assign male workers to watch me act as a film extra, but I don't need much in the way of care. It's more so that I need support, just over having major anxiety issues. It would also help me to join social groups to meet people. He found me a guy from a nursing home who comes from Morocco, but I didn't have support for around a year before him. The dude is a tool. That was actually like a year ago now and I've had bugger all support since. People on mental health forums advised me not to get too attached to these sort of people, as they are toxic and just looking to control people.

When the staff at Autism Initiatives fucked me over for getting a crush on my former key worker and another woman who also overreacted, I eventually got arrested many times for getting upset over being deceived and losing them as support workers. Months later, I was remanded in jail after being arrested several times. Since the court process dragged on for ages, I wasn't allowed at my flat where the majority of my stuff was kept and eventually, the manager made up a dubious story to get me to end my tenancy. After that, I got remanded in jail for breaching court orders, so this legal mess just dragged on and on (although I was not a tenant at the flat any longer) and I'm in another flat now, which isn't supported, but I had to bid and bid like heck for a long time and see a supervisor, and put up with him using other people as stool pigeons. In fact, the council had to grant me homeless priority so I could even get a place to stay, because they said at a normal pace, getting a council flat would normally take nearly a lifetime. Yeah, as if.

[LazyFucker]

The thread was supposed to be about ukpunting and the bannings that get applied therein
I was banned from ukpunting (white knighting aka i was supposedly defending a service providers .....what ever.. ) and then from ukescorting (calling the site masojynistic) .
I have moved on and not looked back.

But having said that I have popped on to ukpunting with new alias and account only to check services of a girl that may interest me for a meet,
Call me what you like -  I only use the site for my own personal reference and do not post anything on there or comment in anyway.

I do find the site vile but do check as a reference point.

[peteraonfilm]

I just log in and read posts. I don't post on there any more, because I think they'll know right away if you've been banned before, via your ISP info. I think the site is a haven for trolls anyway. What's a real kick though is that you're essentially bedding the same women these jackasses are as well.

The few times I did post on UKPunting, the regulars just had a funny attitude, and a "oh, do tell me more" approach to everything you say. In fact, I hate gaming forums for that same reason. People on these shitty survival horror gaming forums gave me grief for a long time, and I think it's all down to the anonymous nature of the web, where immature knobs can be bigger knobs online than off of it. Now I find that no one hardly posts on most of these gaming sites either, which has rendered the Internet kind of boring and pointless.

Forums were at their best over 15 years ago, before social media was really a thing. They're all definitely a waste of time today, though. But I still prefer message boards to garbage like Reddit, and Facebook. Or sending people tweets, because you cannot even edit those.